Is Your Spouse on board if not any suggestions?

Orion Morris · 10-03-2008, 03:24 PM

I have lost two people to this whole delema. I was with one wonderfull girl for 2 years and then another for a little over 3 years. I realize now that if you really care about them then you cannot force anything on them. They are on their own journey and if they need guidence from you then it will happen. You cannot make anybody believe anything. If you ask then to read something and want their opinion on it then that seems less offencive, but you cannot argue with them and accomplish anyting. Some people are not ready to let go and if you try to force them to then they will only grab harder.

10-03-2008, 03:24 PM	#6
Orion Morris Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 416	Re: Is Your Spouse on board if not any suggestions? I have lost two people to this whole delema. I was with one wonderfull girl for 2 years and then another for a little over 3 years. I realize now that if you really care about them then you cannot force anything on them. They are on their own journey and if they need guidence from you then it will happen. You cannot make anybody believe anything. If you ask then to read something and want their opinion on it then that seems less offencive, but you cannot argue with them and accomplish anyting. Some people are not ready to let go and if you try to force them to then they will only grab harder.