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Avalon Spiritual Mother
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: belgium
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Dear Frank Samuel , I will remain here until Avalon closes it 's gates my friend. I am sad to see our soul family divided today but know my heart is with you all . Love from me mudra |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Ontario, Earth, Milky Way, Love, Infinity x2
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THE THREAD YOU STARTED CALLED TIME HAS BEEN REMOVED!!! Quote:
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WHY!!! HOWS IN CHARGE OF THIS SHIP!!! WHY WAS THIS THREAD DELETED!!! HERE IS A COPY OF WHAT WAS POSTED!!! Quote:
and a few other posts that i have saved I could dig up!!! SO NOW WE HAVE ANOTHER MISSING THREAD!!! SOMETHING IS GOING ON AND UNTIL WE GET TO THE BOTTOM I AM NOT READY TO MOVE ON!!! THERE IS A PROBLEM HERE!!! |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Overland Park (Kansas City) Kansas, USA
Posts: 233
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and 2) maybe closing down A1 is just a matter of finalizing the divorce between camelot and avalon... you know... can't live in half a house or drive half a car...lol so... what?... are your priorities with the site name or with the community of people... just go where everyone migrates to... or be left behind... its a matter of choice and perspective... move and be positive OR stay and be negative (personally I would want to choose the positive path, and really get a chance to make a difference in the world- which is what the original intention was - right?) Last edited by xbusymom; 03-16-2010 at 01:25 AM. |
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Project Avalon Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Riverside, ca.
Posts: 898
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Ok, I will begin by explaining why I have not posted more than 10 words in the last week, or so.
It can best be explained by the fact that when I went to the "New Posts" page, this morning, 12 out of the first 25 threads were nothing but sniveling, whiny, ill-informed, ill-meant posts by the REAL people who have destroyed this form. Congratulations! The two-faced, back-stabbers and their uncanny ability to kick a sick dog in the stomach, when it isn't looking, has really shown me the path, and behavior of the truly enlightened. ________________________________ Next! Now that I have already run off everyone with absolutely no interest in them... allow me to provide some actual AV2 facts: 1. PM's and personal pages: Yes! There are "personal pages, where people can mark each other as friends, share quips, quotes, pictures, links, just like this place. Now, I know just what all the good-hearted, trusting people here will say, "Oh he is possessed by Satan, or his bride, or hell why not... he IS Satan himself, the father of liars". So... while I attempt to straighten a few things out, I will provide fake photographic evidence, to prove it. Exhibit A: ![]() Boy, if I didn't know better that looks like a "personal page", of someone else, with a message on it, from me. But wait... it gets better. You have the ability to not only "have a page" to share, it has 3 additional things (I've found so far) to boot:
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"If you don't know how to act like a guest in someone's home, use the door, or we'll have to show it to you."into language any Internet Lawyer can pour over for hours, and hours, looking for loopholes that give them, and only them the right to act like a complete jerk. I see nothing in these, I haven't seen in many other forums. and YES, that includes reserving the right to either alter, or delete anyone's post, any time, for any reason. I'll also say that, from my experience, a forum that doesn't do that, probably lasts 10-30 days. Next, let me take the opportunity to add that, for those who think Mists Of Avalon is God's own answer to this, there are already posts over there complaining about threads being (gasp!) deleted, and threads being edited by the mods. Wait! I just checked. Not only are several threads missing, but the thread complaining about missing, and edited threads is missing too! Aw gee. paradise lost, so soon. _______________________________ Quote:
![]() I guess there is no Spirituality section, and there isn't already 5 posts in it, including one of mine. While I am on that, Mudra... Didn't you decide this place was unworthy of your continued attention, so you were leaving 3 days ago ? Yet here you are, posting in one of the "Let's beat a dead horse" threads... still. I also notice that the special section, at M.O.Av. with your name on it was also deleted in the last 15 minutes (6:15 PDT). Let me ask all the AV 2 detractors a simple question: Were any of you logged in while you were there? You see, much isn't visible yet, to people who aren't logged in. That also is a management decision. You see when someone pays for someplace to exist then, just like their home, they can do things like that. Understanding this though, would take one of two things: 1. Having a bit of trust or faith in what Bill Ryan intends, and waiting. 2. Being a guest in someone's home. _____________________________ It has been very hard for me to keep my mouth shut, while people I once had respect for, have used zero information, bad information, assumptions, even assumptions made by others, and outright lies and pettiness to make a place I really loved, into something I still love, now covered with bovine excrement; and laughing while they did it. But I gave my word to keep quiet on many subjects until PA 2 development was farther along. I kept that promise. Meanwhile people I once respected lined up around the block to pee on someone elses tree, "out of respect". This explains why this post isn't full of "sweetness and light". Trust me, it is no form of apology, either. I'll save that for Bill Ryan, if he thinks I was out of line here. I do wonder what happened to people practicing a little faith, and trust. Has gratitude come up, lately? I'm done. Fred
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"Life IS mystical! It's just that we're used to it" Evil cannot be killed. Only redeemed. Chat us up at: Avalon Chat Last edited by Fredkc; 03-16-2010 at 03:04 AM. |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Manasota FL
Posts: 114
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I hope you don't take offense at my shortening of the rant part. A little humor can sometimes dispell anger. And perhaps you will recognize that this is how many people read posts loaded with so much negativity. We can agree that the new house rules are not unusual. Enjoy your new forum. |
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Project Avalon Moderator
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Queensland Australia
Posts: 507
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Hi all,
For those who think AV2 is going to be a dark place, an elitist run forum, will humour be allowed? (as suggested by swanny) then dont register, go elsewhere. Of course none of the above is true so until you register to find out for your self you will not know for yourself. Some of you are hell bent in assuming it will not be the place for you. Just register and see, tho anyone, who from past posts experience show that they are distructive wont be invited and they are few. So register, then we invite you, if not already invited, remember there are several thousand members. As per Bill Ryans request for the forum. Those who don't register then find another forum that you do like or perhaps start your own, no easy feat, Admins, Mods and yes $$$ amongst plenty of other issues. As a Mod and a volunteer this job is not easy i assure you! especially when there are far more serious issue to attend to, like family, work, paying bills, tending to flood damage the last 2 weeks, maintaining relationships, keeping grounded, getting enough sleep, lawns and gardens that are in serious need of attention, etc, ect. I'l remind some here that when a 'real crisis' rears it head in ones life, like serious injury, ill health, very sick children, death to close ones etc, then PA/AV2 will be the lest important thing on your mind, then, one is reminded of whats really important. Peace to you all Sincerely Ross H
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 65
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Gaia
Posts: 893
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Fred, You are using pretty sharp and insulting words here. It is very easy and shallow way to answer you the same way, but I will answer you with respect, although you are not respecting me anymore, as I saw in your post. I bet you are quite emotional as most of us are here, even though you are insisting on pure "facts". And, as you can probably see, it is all about emotions. And it is good to be like that, I find them most precious characteristic of the humans. It is not "snivelling" as you say, because if you do not understand, showing emotions is a courageous act: to show “weakness” exactly were somebody very "tough" will interpret and ridicule them in a considerable cruel way. And all of this while a flood of crocodile tears are in front of you, exactly at the front page...floating toward Avalon2. I really apologize that I didn’t see there is personal page for members, but as somebody told you, I couldn’t log on to see everything there, since I was not invited. (It is interesting that this morning, after last night posting of this thread, I saw invitation to join Avalon 2 in my e-mail. Quite interesting. Thank you for the invitation, Gareth, I will think about it). As for the guidelines, I am staying at my point that they are to rigorous and too many, and can be misused in many ways to shut up different opinions or critical approaches. I am standing on this point, not only because of rules itself, but mostly because of what was happening here last weeks, when so called "hard hand" made a massacre on this forum. I understand the reasons - orders were given and must be executed. You, Fred, pretty much insists on the fact that Avalon is owned. Sure, we know this, but do you really know who made Avalon to be such a great place? The members, their love and dedication. Until Bill do not realize that Avalon is beyond his (and Kerry`s and admins and mods) personality, there will be not much followers, and there will be problems. This kind of people here does not like "bosses" and "hard hands" to cut them as infantile. They have responsibility, integrity and dignity and, you know what - THE COURAGE in their hearts to show their disagreement. THIS is what makes Avalon a beautiful and great place to be, and all this days I am proud to be part of such a group of people. They do no care so much will they be invited to Avalon2 or not, because they love truth and freedom most of all. If you believe me, this is great "capital" and potential for Avalon. And also, do not judge them for being present on The Mists of Avalon. Try to understand first why they are there. They love each other, they just want to be together, not divided. With all mistakes. I know there are some hidden poisoned serpents here that are using this big arguing and polemic for their agenda to destroy Avalon. I am noticing them, it can’t be proved, but they will succeed only if Avalon becomes highly controlled forum, I am sure about this. Now, I would like to ask you this. Who are "the two-faced, back-stabbers and their uncanny ability to kick a sick dog in the stomach, when it isn't looking...", as you wrote? You need to answer, if you are honest, and if you have "facts" about it. Is that me? Did my opening post looks like that for you, and inspired you to write such cowardice, without names? Is that Mudra? Or Greybeard? Or Jester Terrestrial. First, they have no knifes, they have swords of truth, love and freedom in their hearts. Don’t you understand that you are showing a totalitarian way of judging, Fred? Didn’t you understand who is making all this upset and mess on Avalon all this days, with posting nonsense threads, banning, irritating people? So, do we have right to be emotional and to ask what Avalon2 will be like, after all of this? As I stated, I would like it to be great success, but there are too many elements that make us to be suspicious, and to ask questions. We all love Avalon; I know you love it too, very much - but WHY IS NECESSARY TO BE CLOSED, if we all love it so much? Why? Why only by invitation? Why you are invited, and somebody else not? Who is making criteria? What are criteria? WHAT is criteria itself, if you understand me. Too many unanswered question, my friend. Finally, I would like to think all of this is a kind of great catharsis for all of us. I hope there is a way Avalon to rise again even stronger, even more important and more influential, together with Camelot. But, stop divisions! Rise up oneness! It’s our way. I once again apologize for misunderstandings. With Love and RESPECT. |
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Avalon Spiritual Mother
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: belgium
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You took a great stand my friend and demonstrated you can speak from your Heart. As Always . Love from me mudra |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2009
Posts: 196
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Gaia
Posts: 893
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Since all of us will must make a personal decision, here is mine.
I decided to be member to all 3 forums, where Avalonians are in the moment - Avalon2, The Mists of Avalon and this Avalon, till it is still alive. I am giving a chance to Avalon 2 with clear heart, hopping there can be a new better start, but if I sense some behavior that made so much damage to the comunity - I will leave also with clear heart. The Mists of Avalon is also part of us - we are the same people, with the same hearts. Hopping that we shall find a way to fix and repair what is done, I wish you all to follow your hearts and to have your decisions as it is best for you. Love and Respect |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: devon england
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Avalon Spiritual Mother
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: belgium
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2009
Posts: 49
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One thing about avalon 2 i dont understand ...... If its invite only , then how will people that are new to avalon be able to join?
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Avalon Spiritual Mother
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: belgium
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Somewhere Ross said they are going through the 6800 members and all will get an invite except troubler makers.
You have to be patient as this is a lot of members. You may also request an invite . I believe a thread made sticky by the mods will all the relevant infos regarding PA2 would be of great help. Love Always mudra |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2009
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Avalon Spiritual Mother
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: belgium
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As I suggested there should be a sticky thread that answers all this . Love from me mudra |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Portugal
Posts: 303
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I have posted this on the Nexus thread, and I will put it here too:
The End of a Cycle Everything in life as a cycle. There's the cycle of life, there's the crop cycle, there's the 24H daily cycle, there's the solstice and the equinox cycle, History is made of cycles, etc.. and Avalon is no exception. Avalon has reached the end of a cycle, and a new one is coming. It didn't start in the best way, as we, the members, the ones that keep the forum growing... we were left in the dark, leaving room to spreading rumors, that fed the unhappiness of the members. Not to mention the Abraxas novel... Now the mod team is trying to calm people down and straighten things, but the wound is open, and things will take time to heal. Some people are, by nature, against change when things are running well, (I'm one of them) and if not clearly explained how things will be, the "riot" is a certainty. Some things were said about the new forum rules, but until we see how things will work out, we have to give some benefit of the doubt. We are all precious to Avalon, and I believe the Mod team and the Administrators are aware of it. Without us, Avalon wouldn't be what it is today. The cycle is ending. It was an excellent ride, and the memories of it are here. A new cycle is beginning... will it be a good one? We don't know, but we have to accept it. Maybe we choose different paths, but the goal is the same. (or we wouldn't be here). Remember, how could we be pretending on building communities, if we can't even respect each others in this virtual world? How would it be in the real world? My 2cents! Love and Respect to you all. |
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I dont need a label !
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: The Shire of Wilt
Posts: 2,889
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I am refraining from posting at pa2 for the moment as I am not happy with the way people are being treated. If I do post what I'm thinking they will be pi$sed off with me and will ban me
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Poland
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Poland
Posts: 3,442
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I have a feeling it will backfire at them....
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Southern Maine
Posts: 560
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I logged into AV2 once, immediately didn't like the vibe, and haven't gone back, and I'm not sure if I will. My vote is to leave Avalon as is.
Invite only to a forum, I don't consider that a forum. That is a closed door club. Makes me think of a bunch of privileged men smoking their cigars in a private lounge discussing how they understand the world works and the rest of the world doesn't have a damn clue, and isn't going to find out because it's behind closed doors. Hmph. My new Avalon is in Sedona. I think I'm just gonna head back over there and stay put ![]() |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 335
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Ok, here I go...I have to bring this horse back up here, so I do apologize in advance. The greatest concern that every single member should have is the true triggering of the chaos that unfolded here. Unfortunately, it was predominately due to Moderators argueing and calling each other out openly on the forum for all to see. Then when some of them mentioned agendas playing out behind the scenes...OUCH!! There's nothing more damaging to the integrity of a business, operation, or forum for that matter than public dissension, hostility, and non-support from it's leaders. Period. Unfortunately, those members who had a human reaction to this behavior, information and accusations exploding in their faces, are the ones being penalyzed. People felt let down, and I've yet seen any apology from the Moderators for the obvious. It's as if we all are to move on and forget about it. That is what will cause the slightest thing that happens next to blow up, because we are not addressing the core issues and member concerns. Folks, I've managed people for 10+ years, trust me on the above statement. How things are being handled now, simply is not a conducive approach or resolve. Wow!! |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2009
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Something I’ve learned and passed on to former supervisory employees of mine and co-workers (managers and supervisors) is that there is no need to “set up” undesirables for failure or removal. For repeat offender’s almost always repeat undesirable behaviors…that offends. If not, then the necessary adjustment has been made by the offender. Therefore, if you establish up front that all are welcomed back along with a specific new protocol (thoroughly outlined and shared with all) that will result in read only or removal/banned status. You have core principles/procedure i place. “It is fine to identify the bad apples on the tree, but don’t pick them off. They will eventually rot away and fall off on their own.” |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Physical Realm
Posts: 244
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