Dealing with the Negative People in our Survival Groups

[Racsouran]

Originally Posted by Sherab

Rapscallion,
You are officially uninvited to my radiant zone...whenever I actually have one...

well people need to learn to walk by themselves, and victims do the opposite. Ends up being parasitic so some little punishment it´s ok for me.

Originally Posted by Racsouran

well people need to learn to walk by themselves, and victims do the opposite. Ends up being parasitic so some little punishment it´s ok for me.

yes explain there are no victums.....so please do pretend to be one in your presents.....allways tell the truth to people about your fellings.......be true to yourself brother......the lady ....how ever she recieves your message is her choice......maybe it´s a lesson for you to state your true feelings.....oh and better sooner then later......you don´t need to tell her this when your at the end of your rope with her.....as a matter of fact giver her the truth the next time you see her and you´ll both feel better.....you´ve gott repect honesty.....

[ChristinCP]

Whenever you feel strong opposition toward someone, it usually means that there is more there. Typically, that the things that annoy you about her, are actually indicative of the parts of yourself that you are unhappy with. Don't be mean, unless she is rude. She may not like you much either. Once you get past the anger/passion, she could very well be your best friend. It looks like a confrontation is needed between the two of you, and that doesn't need to be a bad thing. Healthy confrontation can bring people closer. Don't be afraid to have words.