THE PiSSing PEOPLE off thread -- this is a must read

This is a good thread...makes you re-think about stuff (analyze, study, improve, implement)....

Also reminds me on what once someone said:

1/3 will love you
1/3 will hate you
1/3 just wont care

Which is everything but good since it is very (so I think) realistic and enables the thing we call politics.

[Swanny]

I try to ask questions/make statements that I know others are thinking, sometimes these **** people off, oh well that's life

[THE eXchanger]

This is amasing...

www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPqK1JJOFxw

how does he do it ???

[Gnosis5]

Originally Posted by Spregovori

This is a good thread...makes you re-think about stuff (analyze, study, improve, implement)....

Also reminds me on what once someone said:

1/3 will love you
1/3 will hate you
1/3 just wont care

Which is everything but good since it is very (so I think) realistic and enables the thing we call politics.

Yes and sometimes one has to be sure to keep from having to live 24/7 with such people. I made a leap forward and now I'm a bit taken aback to discover certain people who I would never have predicted would react badly to the "new me". It is a reality adjustment for myself also. Giving up "old friends" who are no longer able to be accepting has its sad moments of reflection.

best,
Gnosis

[Carmen]

Gnosis, its when you start having to monitor what you talk about with old friends, and you can't be yourself (your new self) anymore.

Thats when you realize that you are just not frequency specific with that friend anymore. You have moved in consciousness. You try for awhile but it really doesnt work and you end up moving away from them or they become estranged from you.

Love

Carmen

[Gnosis5]

Originally Posted by Carmen

Gnosis, its when you start having to monitor what you talk about with old friends, and you can't be yourself (your new self) anymore.

Thats when you realize that you are just not frequency specific with that friend anymore. You have moved in consciousness. You try for awhile but it really doesnt work and you end up moving away from them or they become estranged from you.

Love

Carmen

Hello Carmen, I see that at least someone on this forum can "duplicate" me, not that it's required because I seem to have a very high tolerance for aloneness, but it's also nice to occasionally have a "dancing partner" :-)

Here is the original link about Pissing People Off: http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog...saturated-fat/

I think Tim Ferris is a genius, one of my very very few role models.

My other role model is my clearing practitioner, and I am revving in a smarter and smarter crowd nowadays.

When one is married to someone who is not at present "frequency specific" it becomes a more delicate issue. Now that my marriage partner knows that some "games" will no longer play on me one can imagine the initial reaction. Fortunately I've learned to stay in the emotional tone of "boredom" which resonates at a frequency just slightly above the antagonism that is the reactive frequency coming at me.

It only gets hairy when I lose my center (usually when I am in the middle of running out a particularly hairy incident) and descend to the same win/lose games level.

So for the next year and a half it looks like I am going to get really good at "boredom". I feel deathly bored just contemplating my jail sentence. By the end of that time he plans to be "Clear". Then we can play more win/win games and have some real high adventures.

In the meantime I just have to restrain from gnawing on my leg that got caught in the trap. LOL Oh, I'm so funny when I'm funny :-)

love,
gnosis

[Carmen]

I will look at that link Gnosis and get back to you later with a reply. It is nice to find someone that sort of replicates our journey!

Love

Carmen

[THE eXchanger]

pet peeve...

changing the spelling in a name - is rude

yes, carmen, i agree,

it is gr8 to find others who resonate to the path you are on

it makes the trip, a 'real' journey

love

SUSAN
THE eXchanger

[Céline]

This thread has irked me since i first read it..

Though intellectually i understand what you mean...the society we have built around us sometimes demands "thinking outside the box".

and by treating everyone equally “nicely” regardless of their contributions, you’ll simply ensure that the only people you’ll wind up angering are the most creative and productive people in the organization.

I notice "nicely"is in quotations... this perhaps a little to general for me.. but i agree with the end result .

But..

I treat everyone nicely... whether it is while i am at a table of stylists, florists, clients etc..discussing a multitude of ideas ..or trying to do same on the spot parenting with some very wise teenagers , at the dinner table...

EVERYONE is treated nicely...but the more "creative and productive"people in the group will definitely get recognition for what they have "brought to the table

i hope i got my opinion across properly...

pissing people off...whether on purpose or NOT..is never a good outcome.

IMHO