Avalon Singles

[Swanny]

Here is something strange that always happens with me.
I meet a girl we have a relationship might be for a few months or might be years, then we split up and with out fail the next man along is the one they have been waiting for. Marriage/babies etc follow.
It's happened so many times that's it's become a bit of a joke.
I say I am like Sam Beckett from Quantum leap, I leap into someones life sort them out in some way and they are then ready to meet Mr Right.

Bit like always the bridesmaid never the bride

Oh well not to worry

[Jack]

Originally Posted by Swanny

Here is something strange that always happens with me.
I meet a girl we have a relationship might be for a few months or might be years, then we split up and with out fail the next man along is the one they have been waiting for. Marriage/babies etc follow.
It's happened so many times that's it's become a bit of a joke.
I say I am like Sam Beckett from Quantum leap, I leap into someones life sort them out in some way and they are then ready to meet Mr Right.

Bit like always the bridesmaid never the bride

Oh well not to worry

I'm not quite sure if there is any single person who is mr. or mrs. right. Human attraction is based pretty much on a few different factors and is almost always predictable if not entirely a science in itself.

For a woman to be attracted to a man it is not based on his soul it is based on his attitude and the way he conducts himself which can be changed pretty easily with minimal effort.

Woman are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to men who have four characteristics ;

1. Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
2. Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.
3. Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.
4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.

Any man with these four qualities is "Mr. Right". There is no deviating from this as it is a natural survival hardwired trait shared by every single human being on this planet.

Human attraction is entirely physiological and psychological in nature. This is a primordial instinct which stems from the times when human beings lived in tribes. And it hasnt changed one bit since then.

If you want to get mrs right you have to be mr right.

[Czymra]

Originally Posted by Jack

I'm not quite sure if there is any single person who is mr. or mrs. right. Human attraction is based pretty much on a few different factors and is almost always predictable if not entirely a science in itself.

For a woman to be attracted to a man it is not based on his soul it is based on his attitude and the way he conducts himself which can be changed pretty easily with minimal effort.

Woman are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to men who have four characteristics ;

1. Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
2. Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.
3. Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.
4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.

Any man with these four qualities is "Mr. Right". There is no deviating from this as it is a natural survival hardwired trait shared by every single human being on this planet.

Human attraction is entirely physiological and psychological in nature. This is a primordial instinct which stems from the times when human beings lived in tribes. And it hasnt changed one bit since then.

If you want to get mrs right you have to be mr right.

Ladies, I really want a comment on this.

[piers2210]

Hey Swanny, at least you're having relationships!!

Be happy!!

I'll buy you a beer some day soon.

P.

[Swanny]

Cheers Piers will look forward to it
Thing is I have had more than my fair share of girlfriends, but that makes it more weird that they all meet the love of their life just after me.

Susan I know what your saying but it happens every time, and I'm sure it's not me making Mr Right turn up right behind me.

Oh well at least they are all happy

[Swanny]

I'm going to get myself a dog for company

[vipassana]

Originally Posted by Czymra

Ladies, I really want a comment on this.

Originally Posted by Swanny

I'm going to get myself a dog for company

I’ve got a dog Swanny and she’s lovely, a great wee friend to me but she has some shortcomings in comparison to a man:-

Men only leave two feet tracks on the floor after a muddy walk
Men don’t eat turds on the sly
Men can open their own cans
It can be fun to dry off a wet man
Men don’t have dog breath all of the time
Men don’t have to play with every man they meet when you’re out for a walk

[Dantheman62]

Jack,Czymra,Swanny,it's all a game, hint "the three second look"

[Czymra]

Originally Posted by Dantheman62

Jack,Czymra,Swanny,it's all a game, hint "the three second look"

I prefer to stare down girls in the tube. HAha!
When one doesn't look away, we've got a candidate.

[piers2210]

Well you dog fans have just got to rent the movie "Dog Park" then....boy meets girl (as long as you have a dog)......

I'm not a dog fan but i liked the movie!!

[THE eXchanger]

swammy, maybe you were the real mr. right
and, then, who they think,
is mr. right-is actually mr. wrong
and, then, after awhile,
they realise, they are with the wrong / right guy
and, then,
they realise, just how terrific you really were
& still are !!!

is that something, like taking 4 right turns,
to keep heading the same way, on the high way of life ???

[THE eXchanger]

i am getting some strange attacks through the ethers...
maybe, some of you, spirited types,
can come to my rescue

you think, they would leave me alone,
since, i am doing book-keeping / accounting work,
that is likely to send their garden some green

however, their G.S.T. (THE GOUGE & SCREW TAX) IN CANADA
is likely, to return some green, to my lawn
(just another way, they track you here)

i would like to stop, to write my damn book,
but, i can NOT seem to afford to stop, to do it,

& NOW, they have given me a deadline--
& on the GST side, where the deadline is,
& they owe me a $6000 refund ???
once, i finish, that part of it
(they are really nuts, the government, chasing you,
when, they owe you money ???)

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by Swanny

I'm going to get myself a dog for company

I got a cat. All he wants is food and attention though. Selfish little punt.

Also, I don't believe in a Mrs.Right. There's no such thing. I'm resigned to just living life for the moment and not trying to get caught up in things that I can't deal with and so far, it's a nice existence.

[Lunaris]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

I got a cat. All he wants is food and attention though. Selfish little punt.

Also, I don't believe in a Mrs.Right. There's no such thing. I'm resigned to just living life for the moment and not trying to get caught up in things that I can't deal with and so far, it's a nice existence.

HAHA! I have a cute cute bratty doggy..

I would say i agree with the fact that i don't believe in a "MR Right" either...when i was younger I was so into the "soulmate" thing..I ended up thinking each one was THE ONE!

The breakups were bad when he would say "but...but..I thought I was your soulmate..."

eh...no....i was wrong!...

over and over and over and over again!

oh well...

i must say i am very happy and content these days though ...no drama!

whoooooooooooooo!

[Lunaris]

i like brainy guys...guys that are a bit "odd"..and skinny..usually...

i think beauty is very subjective...to me they are super super cute but they are not typical..like a male model/actor..

i am not into that look..or too many muscles...

the movie donnie darko...if i was still in high school he would definately be my bf....odd,smart,kinda an outsider...cuteness!

ahahhahahhaa!

hmmmm...the guy who works next door is kinda like that...

uh oh...

ahahahhahaa...

nah....

i want to move to europe next year..the last thing i need is a "tragic love story" right before i get there...

ahhhhhhhhhhh....

i hope there are cool guys in europe!

[THE eXchanger]

i can NOT say,
i like gaunt/or real skinny-extremely thin types of men
to me, they are NOT a big turn_on
anymore, than, i like a heavy/or overweight men,
which is a huge turn off
i kind of like ratios of about 5 foot 10 - 180 lbs
maybe as short as 5'7" 160 lbs to 6 foot - 200 lbs
to my height of 5'4" - 128 lbs (which is less than 9.9 stones)
(however, most men, consider my height, as, being short)
if i put on high heels, i am taller

on the topic of dreaming, and, dream-time
how many of you think,
people appear in your dreams, before they cross your path down here ???

and, how many of you, invite people into your dreams ???

perhaps, a way, to slip around the NOT so popular topic of A.S.

[Lunaris]

ahahahhahha!

exchanger you are awesome rad!

yeah i don't like too skinny either..but i definately don't like too "perfect"...like a movie star kinda...i like them a bit rougher around the edges..

..edgier maybe??

I often dream of things before they happen and people as well...its hard cuz they don't always "appear" as how i dream them..or to be more precise...when i dream them they look different then they do in "real life"...

i had a dream of working in the place i am now about 2 years ago..

i became lucid and started "investigating" my surroundings...like "where am I??"

then...i realize..."oh! i work in a print shop! how funny!"

did not have any plans or ambitions at the time to work in a print shop....

...but...here i am!

the weird thing is sometimes i wonder if i am actually dreaming or am i going back and forth thru time?? because when i realized i had dreamt of this place it was when the "exact same" situation repeated from as in the dream...like a deja vu..

in the "dream" i was talking to my co-worker paul...he looked different of course but when we were in the exact same place same conversation i CLICK realized...woah...this is that dream i had!

these kinds of things happen loads...

[Humble Janitor]

I am not picky about women as much as it seems that women are picky about men on here.

I do not want a super-skinny woman and I do not want a super-overweight woman. I prefer balance.

[Lunaris]

are you talking about what i said??

ahahhahahhahhaa!!!

yeah...balance...

i guess i am talking more about what the girls in the city i live in now like...and how i don't...

that's why i said "skinny"

cuz they all like "buff"..."movie star,rock star" hotness....

and what i think is "hot" is so very different...

dunno if you were in fact talking about what i said...

but..

now that i went this tangent i am happy i cleared that up!

yay!

[piers2210]

Hey what are all you people on the other side of the pond doing up and about?? Haven't you got anything better to do than talk on this thread?? Only joking.

If you want to see REALLY good bodies, you have to rent a porn dvd. Oops....here we go again!! Now I'm not gay whatsoever, but I like to see guys who don't have fat on them, and these guys are ripped.

[Humble Janitor]

Just remember, even the hottest supermodel in the world will age: Her boobs will sag, her face will develop pock marks and she'll shrivel up in the usual spots.

Trying to say that in the long run, personality goes further.

[Lunaris]

Originally Posted by humble janitor

just remember, even the hottest supermodel in the world will age: Her boobs will sag, her face will develop pock marks and she'll shrivel up in the usual spots.

Trying to say that in the long run, personality goes further.

agreed!!!

[Lunaris]

yup!

i am sure now.

i am a gay dude reincarnated as a chick!

that explains EVERYTHING !!!!

ahahahaahaahha....

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by piers2210

Hey what are all you people on the other side of the pond doing up and about?? Haven't you got anything better to do than talk on this thread?? Only joking.

I work the graveyard shift.

[Lunaris]

i think i am a gay guy reincarnated as a woman.