Avalon Singles

[vipassana]

Originally Posted by Kathleen

I just think it's a part of waking up spiritually and realizing you CAN live alone.

Yes I would agree with this because before I awakened spiritually I was needy and dependant on others whereas now I am able to embrace and enjoy being alone. However I'm open to the possibility of meeting a like minded person and continuing on my life journey with a co pilot.

[Czymra]

Originally Posted by vipassana

Yes I would agree with this because before I awakened spiritually I was needy and dependant on others whereas now I am able to embrace and enjoy being alone. However I'm open to the possibility of meeting a like minded person and continuing on my life journey with a co pilot.

I really have gone through the same process but sometimes it does seem like one is utterly stuck when alone. Having an opposite doesn't only give more energy but also the checks that, if no one is there to mirror you actively, you have to run (or let run) them passively. Meaning it's much harder to engage with the 'harsh truth' as one must humbly observe the world around one, while a partner usually slams it in your face.

I for once, like the slamming and can be more humble because of that.
Where was that thread for single sexual spiritual development?

(Oh oh, Kathleen, you wanted to end the rambling on why, yet your statement clicked with three more people that now ramble.)

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Czymra

I really have gone through the same process but sometimes it does seem like one is utterly stuck when alone. Having an opposite doesn't only give more energy but also the checks that, if no one is there to mirror you actively, you have to run (or let run) them passively. Meaning it's much harder to engage with the 'harsh truth' as one must humbly observe the world around one, while a partner usually slams it in your face.

I for once, like the slamming and can be more humble because of that.
Where was that thread for single sexual spiritual development?

(Oh oh, Kathleen, you wanted to end the rambling on why, yet your statement clicked with three more people that now ramble.)

single sexual spiritual development...
that is easy, invite that, into your dreams
anything, that is in 100% alignment
with your mission/purpose/or task --
they do come if you call them
you just have to call them right

also, often, we meet people, who we eventually will end up with,
in our dreams first, a long time, before, we will cross paths
on the earth planes,
my advise, is to always learn how to dream,
and, dream properly

now, in 3D - single sexual spiritual development,
can be done alone

(i'll leave that up to your imaginations)

it is a wild and wonderful world,
we are all in
i say, look for a real eXchanger
someone who is willing, to give it all
and, someone who is willing, to receive it all
and, feels equally good, on either side of that equation

if two are both giving,
then, lots of receiving is going on
and, i think, when, that occurs,
the eXchange you are in, will really be worthwhile

in the in between time,
when you walk alone, remember,
many hours of the day, in your dreams,
you are already there, and, for the most part,
you are already together

eventually, you will weave the thread, together

however, are NOT the most interesting patterns,
in a quilt, the ones, that, move together,
and, then, move very far apart

dreaming is a dance,
and, it is, in the dance,
that you will discover,
that you will find the dream,
along with the dreamers,
for they, are both there,
in all ways, and, always...
and, then, you can weave those threads,
each, with the other,
into The Pivot of THE NOW,
and, it will come back together,
and, magically eXpress itself,
as a dream, within a dream

[Humble Janitor]

The older the soul, the more androgynous we become? I actually believe this and I believe it pays to keep an open mind on almost anything.

People in general are so difficult that sometimes, being single is much easier, stress-free and you have more freedom.

[Swanny]

Just did my daily angel card and got the wedding

[burgundia]

Originally Posted by Swanny

Just did my daily angel card and got the wedding

So now you have to do a solitaire to confirm it.

[burgundia]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

People in general are so difficult that sometimes, being single is much easier, stress-free and you have more freedom.

this is sooooo true.

[Czymra]

also, often, we meet people, who we eventually will end up with,
in our dreams first, a long time, before, we will cross paths
on the earth planes,
my advise, is to always learn how to dream,
and, dream properly

I'm doing that but there is rather little material to hold on to. My dreams are really more feelings and ambiances then 'who, what, where'.
This morning a dream slid through my awareness just because of a single thought.

it is a wild and wonderful world,
we are all in
i say, look for a real eXchanger
someone who is willing, to give it all
and, someone who is willing, to receive it all
and, feels equally good, on either side of that equation

if two are both giving,
then, lots of receiving is going on
and, i think, when, that occurs,
the eXchange you are in, will really be worthwhile

Well, here we go. As people on the thread remark it ain't easy... and now don't give me the old 'but you're young' remark. Most girls are fine until they open their mouth...

in the in between time,
when you walk alone, remember,
many hours of the day, in your dreams,
you are already there, and, for the most part,
you are already together

eventually, you will weave the thread, together

however, are NOT the most interesting patterns,
in a quilt, the ones, that, move together,
and, then, move very far apart

I think I can see what you mean and that's one of the things that keeps me going... one can't spend life in bed however.

dreaming is a dance,
and, it is, in the dance,
that you will discover,
that you will find the dream,
along with the dreamers,
for they, are both there,
in all ways, and, always...
and, then, you can weave those threads,
each, with the other,
into The Pivot of THE NOW,
and, it will come back together,
and, magically eXpress itself,
as a dream, within a dream

Hmmmm.......
...that was pretty.

[David]

Originally Posted by Czymra

Well, here we go. As people on the thread remark it ain't easy... and now don't give me the old 'but you're young' remark. Most girls are fine until they open their mouth...

Sorry ladies. I just couldn't resist.

[Czymra]

Originally Posted by Kathleen

Don't you just love how that happens?

I love rambling.....

and notice they said they'd like a partner?

the subtleties of searching for love.

Ahhh, if you were only 3 decades older!

See that's exactly why I was thinking twice before writing anything in this thread. Well there I have it.

[judykott]

I do not play bridge, but someone told me once that sex is like bridge. If you do not have a good partner, you better have a good hand!!

[David]

Originally Posted by Kathleen

For any not knowing what the Meyers Briggs test is....here's a link:


http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp


INFJ, today anyway!

Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

[Swanny]

Originally Posted by David

Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

And me

Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population

[waitinginthewings]

I have done the Myers Briggs test a few times over the years, & discovered that I had changed with each test. As we develop ourselves through healing our wounds and working on a spiritual path, this also changes some of who we become.

Actually, I and some friends who did the test one day, all agreed, that we had a piece of each of the categories within us. So we concluded, that the test could not give us an accurate "typing " of who we are.

As human beings we are constantly growing and changing, so we truly can not be typed as one or another imho. But its "fun" anyway.

[David]

Originally Posted by Swanny

And me

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by David

Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

I'm an ENFJ.

Though I think the test is a bit vague. It needs to go deeper into the questions as I am 50/50 on some of them.

I find myself becoming less introverted and more extroverted. I'd say that over the past 10 years, I've made leaps and bounds and continue to do so. I no longer yearn to be alone, though sometimes my schedule leaves no choice.

[David]

Originally Posted by Swanny

And me

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

I'm an ENFJ.

Though I think the test is a bit vague. It needs to go deeper into the questions as I am 50/50 on some of them.

I find myself becoming less introverted and more extroverted. I'd say that over the past 10 years, I've made leaps and bounds and continue to do so. I no longer yearn to be alone, though sometimes my schedule leaves no choice.

I agree. It is a little vague. I also find my self becoming more extroverted as I get older but then, there are the times when I need time to my self for a couple days to recharge. I have found the Chinese horoscopes do a better job at describing my personality than the western astrology. So maybe a mixture of ENFJ and the Chinese Tiger best fits me.

[burgundia]

Thank you for the link Kathleen. now i know I am INFP (healer)