Choose Not to Play the Victim

tone3jaguar · 06-27-2009, 12:26 PM

When something bad or inconvenient is happening to you, you have two choices. You can play the victim or you can view the adversity as an opportunity to learn. If you play the victim then you accomplish nothing for yourself and you get no closer to a solution to the problem. If you view the adversity as an opportunity to learn you very quickly find your way out of the situation and are wiser at the end. That is all.

06-27-2009, 12:34 PM

Very good advice especially in these challenging times.

Seashore · 06-27-2009, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by sleepingnomore

Very good advice especially in these challenging times.

rhythm · 06-27-2009, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by tone3jaguar

When something bad or inconvenient is happening to you, you have two choices. You can play the victim or you can view the adversity as an opportunity to learn. If you play the victim then you accomplish nothing for yourself and you get no closer to a solution to the problem. If you view the adversity as an opportunity to learn you very quickly find your way out of the situation and are wiser at the end. That is all.

wonderfull 100% with you here

Jack · 06-27-2009, 02:43 PM

Ive always loved your posts tone3jaguar

Keep up the good work

mudra · 06-27-2009, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by tone3jaguar

When something bad or inconvenient is happening to you, you have two choices. You can play the victim or you can view the adversity as an opportunity to learn. If you play the victim then you accomplish nothing for yourself and you get no closer to a solution to the problem. If you view the adversity as an opportunity to learn you very quickly find your way out of the situation and are wiser at the end. That is all.

Life is growth. If we stop growing, technically and spiritually, we are as good as dead

Excerpted by William McLuskie from The Art of Peace a collection of quotes by Morihei Ueshiba

Kindness
mudra

lightbeing · 06-28-2009, 10:50 AM

Thank you tone3jaguar !

"Whenever we are uncomfortable with something,

whenever we're getting frustrated, tight, worried or even angry,
we're provided with an awesome opportunity to grow.

Anyone can be at peace when things are going our way,
but it is the sign of a true master to find stillness in the midst of discomfort.

So if you are to be truly surrendered to your evolutionary path,
be sure to make the most of the times of most discomfort,

for they will help you expand most of all."

Openhand

Blessings

lightbeing

THE eXchanger · 08-09-2009, 02:40 PM

very good advise, in this thread
thanks to all who contributed their thoughts

Oliver · 08-09-2009, 03:07 PM

There is a third choice in my opinion: not to accept the concept of "to win or to loose" mentality that is imposed for the mass delusion and psychological control. Since all of this 3D is temporary, the real victims in front of the face of the universal truth and justice are the victimizers of today`s world.

Love and Respect.

mudra · 08-10-2009, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Oliver

There is a third choice in my opinion: not to accept the concept of "to win or to loose" mentality that is imposed for the mass delusion and psychological control. Since all of this 3D is temporary, the real victims in front of the face of the universal truth and justice are the victimizers of today`s world.

Love and Respect.

Loving kindness
mudra

tone3jaguar · 12-15-2009, 05:08 AM

Bump, and this is my message to any new or old forum members who wish to play the role of the victim on these forums.

371 · 12-15-2009, 05:10 AM

"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering"

TempestGarden · 12-15-2009, 06:57 AM

I...... generally agree. But, where in the world did this come from? Or, in other words what prompted this post?

Gnosis5 · 12-15-2009, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by mudra

Life is growth. If we stop growing, technically and spiritually, we are as good as dead

Excerpted by William McLuskie from The Art of Peace a collection of quotes by Morihei Ueshiba

Kindness
mudra

If you need a love boost visit Mudra's thread. http://projectavalon.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16240

A boost of enthusiasm, JesterTerrestrial's thread: http://projectavalon.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13463

tone3jaguar · 12-15-2009, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by TempestGarden

I...... generally agree. But, where in the world did this come from? Or, in other words what prompted this post?

It is an old thread that I bumped back up to the top because there is someone on the forums currently who is eating up bandwidth creating an entire threads about being victimized by the members of this forum. I had originally posted it because I had seen a huge trend in the western world to see adversity as an attack on the self instead of a catalyst for change.

Sideshow Shaman · 12-15-2009, 11:41 PM

Thanks for the timely eloquence, T3J

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Originally Posted by tone3jaguar

bumped back up to the top because there is someone on the forums currently who is eating up bandwidth creating an entire threads about being victimized by the members of this forum.

This needs another bump, because a new user is making a real sport out of playing the victim and triggering as many people as possible.

eleni · 12-16-2009, 12:03 AM

If someone is causing harm/triggering- best approach is to ignore and vibrate higher. They will then lose their power over you as soon as you stop feeding them energy.

I wish people would look at the PT are not going to Be that way. Vibrate higher, they leave your space/energy field.

Gnosis5 · 12-16-2009, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by eleni

If someone is causing harm/triggering- best approach is to ignore and vibrate higher. They will then lose their power over you as soon as you stop feeding them energy.

I wish people would look at the PT are not going to Be that way. Vibrate higher, they leave your space/energy field.

Good advice, thanks. The concept of transmutation sometimes escapes me :-)

love,
gnosis

eleni · 12-16-2009, 12:25 AM

yes, I get that advice reinforced today by my clearing person. We were shouting **** the Illuminati and Annunaki, et al- if the entire world started vibrating higher they would have no choice but to leave- they couldn't come take power from people any longer. I can't stand their BS, am tired of it.

Gnosis5 · 12-16-2009, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by eleni

yes, I get that advice reinforced today by my clearing person. We were shouting **** the Illuminati and Annunaki, et al- if the entire world started vibrating higher they would have no choice but to leave- they couldn't come take power from people any longer. I can't stand their BS, am tired of it.

Ah, someone who is doing clearing work....and see what it is doing for you?!?

At least it brought you up out of fear!! Me too

Everybody wins, and that starts with ME!!

eleni · 12-16-2009, 12:54 AM

Yes, they can go straight to another galaxy whom they vibrate with- problem is most everyone over here (planet earth) has given over their power to those unmentionables......

So let's raise vibration from the core and that does allow for anger /rage to come out as we raise it higher. They aren't going to go away when we place our will in denial mode. And onto the clearing work.....

Gnosis5 · 12-16-2009, 01:06 AM

Eleni, what if we started a thread devoted to the subject of Clearing? How do you see it going? I would like to get some input regarding other clearing modalities based upon subjective experiences.

I am not a clearing practitioner so I cannot be accused of a profit motive. Neither can you.

By the way, what goal or outcome do you desire from your clearing work?

best,
gnosis

Gnosis5 · 12-16-2009, 01:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mudra

Life is growth. If we stop growing, technically and spiritually, we are as good as dead

Excerpted by William McLuskie from The Art of Peace a collection of quotes by Morihei Ueshiba

Kindness
mudra

So true, I'm starting to feel a bit incomplete right now because we started a good project and then got sidelined until I finish my clearing work. Three steps forwards, two steps backwards :-)

Gnosis5 · 12-16-2009, 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by eleni

Yes, they can go straight to another galaxy whom they vibrate with- problem is most everyone over here (planet earth) has given over their power to those unmentionables......

So let's raise vibration from the core and that does allow for anger /rage to come out as we raise it higher. They aren't going to go away when we place our will in denial mode. And onto the clearing work.....

I found out rather rudely that they hate anyone doing real clearing work and they are masters of distraction and mind bending/numbing, but there is absolutely nothing they can do to a being who has freed himself from attachment to all those constructs they are so intent on re-wiring for one.

Clearing helps me find my Karmic Prior Cause and thus disengage.

eleni · 12-16-2009, 01:40 AM

Yes, we can start a thread- I'm not being charged $$$ either and person is an ex scientologist. I orginally got involved with it to clear issues that happened in this life time. Need to do more.

I am no longer afraid of the unmentionables.

06-27-2009, 12:26 PM	#1
tone3jaguar Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: www.altimatrix.com Posts: 1,525	Choose Not to Play the Victim When something bad or inconvenient is happening to you, you have two choices. You can play the victim or you can view the adversity as an opportunity to learn. If you play the victim then you accomplish nothing for yourself and you get no closer to a solution to the problem. If you view the adversity as an opportunity to learn you very quickly find your way out of the situation and are wiser at the end. That is all.

06-27-2009, 12:34 PM	#2
sleepingnomore Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim Very good advice especially in these challenging times.

06-27-2009, 02:43 PM	#5
Jack Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 454	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim Ive always loved your posts tone3jaguar Keep up the good work

06-28-2009, 10:50 AM	#7
lightbeing Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: earth Posts: 1,463	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim Thank you tone3jaguar ! "Whenever we are uncomfortable with something, whenever we're getting frustrated, tight, worried or even angry, we're provided with an awesome opportunity to grow. Anyone can be at peace when things are going our way, but it is the sign of a true master to find stillness in the midst of discomfort. So if you are to be truly surrendered to your evolutionary path, be sure to make the most of the times of most discomfort, for they will help you expand most of all." Openhand Blessings lightbeing

08-09-2009, 02:40 PM	#8
THE eXchanger Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Spiritual eXplorer-Canada Posts: 4,915	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim very good advise, in this thread thanks to all who contributed their thoughts

08-09-2009, 03:07 PM	#9
Oliver Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Gaia Posts: 893	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim There is a third choice in my opinion: not to accept the concept of "to win or to loose" mentality that is imposed for the mass delusion and psychological control. Since all of this 3D is temporary, the real victims in front of the face of the universal truth and justice are the victimizers of today`s world. Love and Respect. Last edited by Oliver; 08-09-2009 at 03:09 PM.

12-15-2009, 05:08 AM	#11
tone3jaguar Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: www.altimatrix.com Posts: 1,525	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim Bump, and this is my message to any new or old forum members who wish to play the role of the victim on these forums.

12-15-2009, 05:10 AM	#12
371 Banned Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 503	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim *"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering"*

12-15-2009, 06:57 AM	#13
TempestGarden Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 141	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim I...... generally agree. But, where in the world did this come from? Or, in other words what prompted this post?

12-16-2009, 12:03 AM	#17
eleni Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 865	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim If someone is causing harm/triggering- best approach is to ignore and vibrate higher. They will then lose their power over you as soon as you stop feeding them energy. I wish people would look at the PT are not going to Be that way. Vibrate higher, they leave your space/energy field.

12-16-2009, 12:25 AM	#19
eleni Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 865	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim yes, I get that advice reinforced today by my clearing person. We were shouting **** the Illuminati and Annunaki, et al- if the entire world started vibrating higher they would have no choice but to leave- they couldn't come take power from people any longer. I can't stand their BS, am tired of it.

12-16-2009, 12:54 AM	#21
eleni Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 865	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim Yes, they can go straight to another galaxy whom they vibrate with- problem is most everyone over here (planet earth) has given over their power to those unmentionables...... So let's raise vibration from the core and that does allow for anger /rage to come out as we raise it higher. They aren't going to go away when we place our will in denial mode. And onto the clearing work.....

12-16-2009, 01:06 AM	#22
Gnosis5 Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 1,659	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim Eleni, what if we started a thread devoted to the subject of Clearing? How do you see it going? I would like to get some input regarding other clearing modalities based upon subjective experiences. I am not a clearing practitioner so I cannot be accused of a profit motive. Neither can you. By the way, what goal or outcome do you desire from your clearing work? best, gnosis

12-16-2009, 01:40 AM	#25
eleni Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 865	Re: Choose Not to Play the Victim Yes, we can start a thread- I'm not being charged $$$ either and person is an ex scientologist. I orginally got involved with it to clear issues that happened in this life time. Need to do more. I am no longer afraid of the unmentionables.