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Old 02-22-2010, 09:20 PM   #1
morguana
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Default Re: Warning Warning Danger Danger! Thread for open dissagreements..

one of my fav poems sums up for me how to 'deal' with the less positive side of life (both on and off forum)

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

just my little contribution to this thread,
love
m x
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Old 02-22-2010, 11:23 PM   #2
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I find this forum to much like a great city; full, robust, bustling with intent, noisy, sometimes crazy but always interesting.

Like any great city there is a soft underbelly... the seedy areas of town that many frequent and many avoid but is what makes it a great city.

Celine I love to read your post because of your honesty and your passion. I love Abrax for his stimulation and many, many others for their joy, inspiration or compassion.

It's almost as if Avalon in some ways reflects humanity with all the refined beauty and ugly warts tightly twisted together into a bouncing ball of knots, never sure where it is going or where it will land.

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Old 02-22-2010, 11:45 PM   #3
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...It's almost as if Avalon in some ways reflects humanity with all the refined beauty and ugly warts tightly twisted together into a bouncing ball of knots, never sure where it is going or where it will land.
It is how I see it also. I think it is normal to see all kinds of views and sharing, some might appear as dreadful, and when you dig up a bit they are in fact empowering because creates an awakening in consciousness. Some appears has empowering and spiritual, but when you taste them with passion, they simply perpetrate a victim consciousness with guru's wisdom and neglecting the wisdom inside.

Freewill is part of our world and we must live by it. It is ours to develop an inner contact with the divine presence within. Sometimes you got to touch fire to learn how hot it is... That is one reason why we are here.

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Old 02-23-2010, 12:52 AM   #4
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You know what? 3 times I've started to reply to this thread. Each time and now it's just another me me me post. Each time I had to stop myself because I had more disparaging things to say than good.

Is it that I'm dumbfounded by some of the dross here? Is it because I'm dumbfounded by people consistently replying to the dross in their oh so nice way? Is it because I'm dumbfounded by the gullibility, paranoia and down right ignorance?

"There's nought queer as folk" as the saying goes. That'll explain some of the stuff here but I have to accept I might be just as insane as everyone else. Either that or just a grump old so an so.

What ever it is, I've been quite captivated of late and there are nuggets of info to consider. I'm also pleased that most threads are quite civil on the whole.... although I feel like reaching into me monitor at times
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Old 02-23-2010, 02:06 AM   #5
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WTG Celine for having the courage and knowledge to put up this thread

I appreciate your strenght knowing that you would recieve flack.

I want you to know that there are many that understand where you are coming from

Thank you

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Old 02-23-2010, 03:09 AM   #6
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Where's the flack??...I see no Flack.....I did learn a little though

Peace Y'all
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Old 02-23-2010, 11:21 AM   #7
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I think that it is a valid point that there can be a few threads whose content seems to consume a certain amount of time that could be better spent on other things. However, I oppose censorship, and I think that the mods here do an admirable job of stepping in when absolutely neccesary.

Given the chance of erroneous/false/ distracting threads being placed onto a forum such as this... one whose unstated aim is to challenge consensus illusion (and I would imagine that chance is somewhat high), I think that it is a good exercise in discernment, picking the wheat from the chaff.

I have read MANY great things on this forum, and I have learned LOTS. One thing that I have learned is that if it doesn't resonate, move on. As Stardustaquarion said, if no one reads a thread ( I say "replies to") , it will die out, enevitably. I also think that a lot of the best posters here have a fantastic sense of humour. You can't have levity without light
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Old 02-23-2010, 11:54 AM   #8
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I believe that unity is simply impossible as long as the veil that hides us from ourselves, our past, and our nature - is removed

until then it will seem as a chaos of infinite perspectives vying for recognition or accommodation...some even supremacy
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Old 02-24-2010, 04:34 PM   #9
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I appreciate your strenght knowing that you would recieve flack.

I want you to know that there are many that understand where you are coming from

Thank you
You are very welcome and thank you.. i have not received any yet for this thread...mind you i did expect some...

But (yes theres always a but)

The point of this thread is excactly that.. Dissagrements do not have to be a negative..
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Old 02-24-2010, 04:46 PM   #10
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how many seeing the movie 2012 come out wondered if it was written by someone that was here with us in the forum?

What better place for a science fiction writer to toss out an idea for feedback than in a forum that is expanding beyond black and white?

My feelings are there are far more of these, than black hats trying to disturb our psych by spinning us down a path of darkness and despair.
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Old 02-24-2010, 05:18 PM   #11
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My feelings are there are far more of these, than black hats trying to disturb our psych by spinning us down a path of darkness and despair.
Hear Hear!!

i second that belief
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Old 02-24-2010, 05:33 PM   #12
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My feelings are there are far more of these, than black hats trying to disturb our psych by spinning us down a path of darkness and despair.
2012 is anything you want it to be.
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Old 02-24-2010, 06:28 PM   #13
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Ill put it simple. If you want to control others by taking there freedom away is not love!!!

Who ever is questions freedom of speech should look again in the mirror, there is your problem.

I wanna see some one come to me and try to take away my freedom you be sorry you have !!!!
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Old 02-24-2010, 06:31 PM   #14
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I wanna see some one come to me and try to take away my freedom you be sorry you have !!!!
Sorry to burst your bubble but your freedom is already compromised
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Old 02-24-2010, 06:46 PM   #15
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We are all free people. Unfortunately we have many systems in place that make us forget this.

At times, some posts here, "bother" me. I personally find it disappointing to see people in fear and doubt of themselves. Nothing on this forum should effect your self esteem. If it does, perhaps online forums are not the place for you. (generally speaking to no one in particular) it is very easy to ignore posts, and posters, who do not resonate with you, if that is your choice.

Disagreements are healthy, providing those individuals involved maintain basic respect for one another. Which should be simple.. We are all here. We should share.

~Silly monkeys can't you see that Eden has enough to go around~ <<again not directed at anyone. More to myself really.

"The sharpest sword is held in the mouth of man"

We should ALL be what we say.. live our words. Be responsible with our tongues. Until we all see ourselves as equal, the same, we will continue to have this polarity between us.

Make a personal adjustment.. Love those who disagree with you. Forgive yourself for not understanding their position. trust yourself even if NO ONE agrees with you. Only you know your truth..

If you speak from the heart, someone will know it.. Someone will love it. So do it!

I love you all.. even if you don't agree with this post or think I am "w/e".. You don't get to change my love for you.

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Sorry to burst your bubble but your freedom is already compromised
the most important part of you - YOU CONTROL,
and, if YOU DO NOT
it would be a good idea
to step into the CAN/SHALL/AND, WILL of iT ALL

toss out could/should/and, would
adopt an attitude of CAN/SHALL/AND, WILL
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Old 02-24-2010, 06:59 PM   #17
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Sorry to burst your bubble but your freedom is already compromised
Only for does who are blind!

The problem is not that people aren't free any more, but it is that there not knowing and seeing it.

When your moving forward your freeing your self from the system, only the physical manifestation from the others is still present. If you see true that illusion the problem goes away!!!
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Old 02-25-2010, 02:46 PM   #18
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Hmm seeing thru the illusion...clears the vision..

yes ok i can see that..

But how does "which alien is supporting Arnold"... help to give clarity?
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It's almost as if Avalon in some ways reflects humanity with all the refined beauty and ugly warts tightly twisted together into a bouncing ball of knots, never sure where it is going or where it will land.

Peace
yes i completely relate to that perspective..

And thank you for your kinds words.
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Old 02-24-2010, 04:30 PM   #20
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one of my fav poems

just my little contribution to this thread,
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Beautiful..thank you
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Old 02-24-2010, 06:57 PM   #21
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Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
Morguana, that was beautiful. Thank you!
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