Have you ended a significant relationship since your quest to 'remember who you are'?

PilotSimone · 11-19-2009, 03:11 PM

I ended a 19-year friendship last night quite unexpectedly.

It had been building all year, but somehow it still takes me by surprise. The more I move forward in remembering myself, the more negativity comes from this relationship. It felt very draining and damaging to me personally, so I have been politely ignoring her for quite some time.

I know these things are supposed to happen. I should flow with it and not get wrapped up in the illusion of guilt and such.

I'm sorry to all of you who are going through the same. This sucks.

All messages of optimism welcome, btw. I'd love to move through this quickly if possible.

11-19-2009, 03:11 PM	#1
PilotSimone Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: US Posts: 114	Have you ended a significant relationship since your quest to 'remember who you are'? I ended a 19-year friendship last night quite unexpectedly. It had been building all year, but somehow it still takes me by surprise. The more I move forward in remembering myself, the more negativity comes from this relationship. It felt very draining and damaging to me personally, so I have been politely ignoring her for quite some time. I know these things are supposed to happen. I should flow with it and not get wrapped up in the illusion of guilt and such. I'm sorry to all of you who are going through the same. This sucks. All messages of optimism welcome, btw. I'd love to move through this quickly if possible.