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Old 12-15-2009, 09:52 PM   #1
Kamikaze
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Default I'm dissapointed the moment I arrive here

I just joined the forum because of a sincere cry for "help" by a member about everyone ganging up on him and refusing to see anything what he tried to make you see.

I would have joined sooner or later but his thread made it a lot sooner than I had thought.

The thread and person in question is "Last Try (I suspect, in vein. Hope I am wrong.)..." by WarriorServant

I made 1 post in it and read a few more and then started my second post but was cut off by the the closing of the thread and banning off the person in question... Damn what I'm disappointed in the handling of this issue at these forums.

I was just on my way to try to post on how to calm this all down but seems I arrived to late to be off any useful help.
This was not the way I wanted to join. I'm disheartened by the happening.

Truly disappointed in moderators handling and the forums people participating in the thread. True mob mentality and for sure take the easy damn way out off it. Every participator was a Troll in that thread! I mean everyone! I hope someone will see something from this.


I will below post the second post I was about to post:


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Originally Posted by Gareth View Post
I agree completely Tango.

WarriorServant turn your post quantity into quality or you will have to leave.

This is not what the forum is all about - others maybe but not this one. If you don't like it go and post somewhere else because this community has clearly said it does not like your style - and I have to agree.

Take the hint - change or leave.

G
Sorry to distract more from topic! This should not be here!
But could not find PM... Where is it? First forum I could not find PM on?!

This threat is tackling the problem from all wrong view. You make it easy for yourself. Trying to get 1 person in line rather than ALL the others that so obviously are as much at fault themselves?!

Things have spiralled out of control now I see. No one wants to see what WarriorServant tries now to point out in his own way in this thread.

He tries everyone of you to see "keep to topic" but none of you do. Or you do but don't care as the thread is way out of line already. Or rather you have gotten such a "distaste" about anything concerning about him you are compulsive to "fire him up some more" whit things not concerning topic but rather just discuss the "accusations" and off topic things inserted around.

To WarriorServant. I have to say I see your point but you have to see into your actions as well. Responding to the others off topic things will only help to keep things off topic. You should have only posted shortly! "Off from topic" in every instance refusing to answer otherwise, or try to make em see the problem responding to other inquiries.
It's futile! You can't change others unless they want to change... and that doesn't happen within a short time span and in a discussion on a forum!
This approach you have chosen isn't "well liked or seen" for sure by anyone. Moderators or adminstators won't like to spam off useless posts this will create, they will accuse you. You will be seen as whatever they want to see you as. For sure it might seem the need for the thing to be addressed but it will be hard. People go for the easy way... "You are the problem"... Rather than trying to see the problem in themselves and the mob mentality that is so damn apparent here.

You are causing a storm off people to creak out their worst in themselves without them realizing what they actually are doing themselves. But you have overlooked your own part into it all.

It will be hard to go anywhere at this stage I reckon unless some get glimpses of genius to fix this mess right now.

I recommend to you WarriorServant you not post any more even whit "not on topic". Blatantly refuse anything to do whit off topic posts. This is the only solution I see at this moment. If you decide to start a new thread about you experiences I suggest you do this here as well. If people sidetrack look for how far it goes if it reaches more than 1 page of BS request a moderator... now if there is a reasonable moderator at all... There should be. To delete every single post in that thread except the first one to start over until people adhere that they must stay on topic even if it is this damn cursed topic about "the Bible and religion" when in first case it doesn't have anything there to be discussed to be on topic.
This topic or what the topic the people here at the forums thought you would be "preaching" about when it was not that at all is cursed these days beyond belief. It's a flame throwers battle for supremacy!

I read now people saying they are on topic... Wrong! You aren't following the topic in the first post! You are following the "consensus" topic of what everyone believes the topic was about. But it was sidetracked and out off topic instantly! It's non contestable!

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The way people wanted him to act as just ignore the "out from topic" as I also suggest isn't the real solution in the end. It's the avoidance of the issue by stifling it out from existence by not talking about it.
Everyone would still have sidetracked his threads as I looked at the sheer onslaught of people contributing to the mess. It's a mob mentality issue. You didn't like him because he was different and didn't know how to handle him! You kicked him away...

I was interested on what he might have had to actually share about his experiences spiritually in conjunction whit the bible but EXCLUDING RELIGION! Everyone seems to be incapable to disjoin bible and religion it seems which caused this problem here in huge part. It's a flame bait as I've said a few times already bringing the worst out of people whitout realizing what they are seemingly doing.

It requires strict moderation and rule following... No bias!... there was bias from moderators I see.
Moderators should keep a objective, disjointed view but by contributing to the thread pulling it further from bad to hell isn't the way.

Well I let it be there. I won't answer any post on this topic. So if there is more flame etc. It's all your responsibility!
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