Hello Tamarie,
Anchor is right about letting go of the fear and balance your emotions regarding your husband.
A friendly and loving environment is important for your daughter.
I opened a thread in healing about the swine flu :" prevention and immunity to poisonous effects " .
You may find additionnal data there to the ones that have already been advised to you on this thread.
http://projectavalon.net/forum/showthread.php?t=17068
I have friends who have had good results regarding the cleansing of vaccines with Homeopathy .
Finding an homeopath around and asking for advice might help you understand things from his doctor's viewpoint.
As a last advice I would say to not envision the worst .
Trust that help can be found and also that she might just go through the vaccine she got without complications.
My compassionate thoughts are with you . Keep us informed.
Love Always
mudra