How about this for a solution . . .
When you think of God, visualize an invisible entity composed of nothing but energy - no form, no size, no color, no sound, just energy.
When you then wish to talk about this entity, try the following . . . .
Instead of saying something like, "God is the source of all life. He created all that exists. He lives forever. He will not die."
Say this, "God is the source of all life. God created all that exists. God lives forever. God will not die."
No gender is needed and the word God is not replaced with a male or female flavor.
The repetition of the word God is no harder to listen to than the repetition of the word He.
This way nobody with a gender issue needs to get upset.
