hi,
i can see you've despaired of the standard medical treatment so i'm going to offer you some nonstandard stuff.
i've been hearing a lot, and learning of, quite a few opinions saying maybe mainstream science doesn't know all too much about the human body.
raw foodists and others claim that most (or every) disease is caused by the body being filled up with "mucus" that blocks the passageways in our body (digestion tract, blood vessels etc.) which forms a breeding ground for bacteria and such, and blocks the regular functioning of the body besides.
they impliment methods such as fasting, laxatives and enemas to clear the body of this disruption, and claim to be able to cure "uncurable" diseases such as cancer and aids.
I for one, find their arguments very convincing, and have a good intuitive feeling about this.
i can't confirm anything. i'm not usually sick, so you're kinda going blindly with this if you try. but if it works i'd very much like to hear so i can recommend it to others if the situation arises.
anyways:
Dr. Richard Schultz (or Schultze) is a good start. you can find a lot of his stuff here
http://healingtools.tripod.com/DS_pages.html
check out the videos: "the incurable program" and the "natural healing crusade".
also i bet you can call him and arrange a meeting.
another place is
www.rawfoodexplained.com where you can find tons of information.
also you can check out Arnold Ehret's books, they cost like $5.
but since you are dying i guess you should set an appointment with Dr. Schultz if you're trying this approach (he doesn't pay me to say this, i'm half the world away).
yours in health.
Omer.