I had further thoughts overnight
and had this reflection:
Source love us all, it does not distinguish between women and men, we are all love equally
If we feel we are victim of the "patriarchal" energies, the only one that can victimize us is ourselves, no one can curtail our freedom and no curse can work if we chose to reject the invasion of our inner sanctum
Blaming someone else for our weaknesess is the history of Earth againg and again. The victim victimizer game that we play in turns. We can only empower ourselves by choosing not to be a victim anymore and forgiving those that we have allowed to victimize us.
If we need any help getting rid of undesirable energies we can call upon that wise part of us called Rishi (13th, 14th and 15th dimensions) and we will always be assisted, no matter how deep and difficult the problem
If the energies that we are carring are still there, it might just be our own subconsciouss and the return for past deeds as what goes around comes around, the law of reciprocity
Otherwise I agree with the other forum members that feel she is quite scattered and does not know were to proceed.
Love