Thank you dear people for responding. I'm learning a lot from this experience.
First off, thank you, Starlah: You are right. I went back into the website and after considerable deep digging, finally found the FAQ page with the question, "Am I required to get an EDL?" The answer is, "No, the EDL program is completely voluntary."
So, I don't have to submit to this invasion of my privacy. However, it will mean that I can no longer drive 6 miles from my home to visit and shop in Canada. The EDL is presented as a convenience so we don't need to pay for the expensive (and just as invasive passport). I'm not sure if this type of ID will be required to fly within the US or not, but if it does, then I will not be permitted to visit my children and grands in California unless I drive it.
I feel much better now, and the sun is shining brightly, and I need to head outside to finish building my newest vegetable garden
