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Old 09-12-2008, 02:55 PM   #7
Theresa
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Default Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.

I aplogize that this opinion won't be very helpful in terms of "keeping the peace", most likely, but I will say this.

I have found that I really have to be with someone who is willing to expand vibrationally to be in a healthy space. That being said, if they are willing to allow me to be MYSELF, and explore the world the way I have to to keep growing, then I can work with them too, wherever they are. But if they start dictating to me the boundaries I'm "allowed" to live under, so that they don't feel threatened, well, that's always the beginning of the end for me in relationship.

I can hear you about this and it brings me back about 15 years. Needless to say, that relationship didn't last. I know most people have way more tolerance than me, though.
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