Hi Aglawless, meanwhile there's been lots of water under the bridge, but I would like to say something about this "alienation" process, when people around you don't resonate with the information like that on PC.
My experience is to not talk at all about it, unless there's evidence of interest. These subjects like aliens, mind control, abduction, black ops, hidden agendas, etc. can raise lots of fear and dispair. I feel there's people who learned to know Earth's/their past way back and people who're not at all into reincarnation and the history of mankind and our planet. Consider the deep hidden memories in our DNA, regarding our past, being awakened by this information. Aren't we all going through that transformation process?
I can imagine it's frustrating not to be able to talk about it with your wife, such things take time and who knows.......change
I hope you are doing well, take care.