what a helpful suggestion this question is. Thanks JM.
Well, for myself, I am coming to a point where I will incorporate the dark with the light. I would like to be surprised. Not in the physical meeting itself (Someone mentioned a call before the occurrence. I would like that), but more so as in experiencing thoughts and ideas that I would never initiate on my own willingly. I guess the bottom line is I would like a mentor that would blow my mind so to speak...... makes me smile thinking about it.