Hi Myplanet, you write like a very thoughtful soul, start your thread 

  Your right, getting beyond the fear is the goal, these commentators though are playing a role to establish that there is  something wrong with how things are, next stop,,,,no fear, and its up to us to take the message further.
You might be interested in this,
http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...chance&view=3#