Avalon Singles

[Kulapops]

Originally Posted by gita

did you see my 'happy sad balls' yesterday?

Only a woman could get away with saying this.

[Swanny]

Sorry I missed your balls

[gita]

Originally Posted by Kulapops

Only a woman could get away with saying this.

Yep! All said in innocence!!

Anyway Kula, step away from the PC or else you be pulling an all nighter.xx

[gita]

Originally Posted by Swanny

Sorry I missed your balls

I'll post them on your page later - I have a collection didn't you know.

[THE eXchanger]

nice avator gita

[gita]

Originally Posted by THE eXchanger

nice avator gita

Thank you eXchanger. Glad to see someone here using their own pic – you are brave but you do have a beautiful face so you can get away with. I remain a coward.

[THE eXchanger]

whatever is outside, is only half as good, as what is inside

[rhythm]

Originally Posted by gita

Thank you eXchanger. Glad to see someone here using their own pic – you are brave but you do have a beautiful face so you can get away with. I remain a coward.

ah! but i have met Gita GIRL and she is realy beautifull inside and out
REALY

and kulla is real sweet ladys
and a true gentleman
and very funny xxx

[gita]

Originally Posted by rhythm

ah! but i have met Gita GIRL and she is realy beautifull inside and out
REALY

and kulla is real sweet ladys
and a true gentleman
and very funny xxx

Speak for yourself angel - plus the fact you are biased and I love you for it.xxx

[Kulapops]

Originally Posted by rhythm

and kulla is real sweet ladys
and a true gentleman
and very funny xxx

Great.. thanks for that R... I'll pay you tomorrow Rhythm. The usual fee?

Look forward to seeing Gita's happy/sad balls in the flesh too

The mind boggles.

You're all sweet, what can I say? Even the guys...

K

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by futureyes

[COLOR="Cyan"][B]dear hj ...

wait no longer within your frustration ... your heart speaks to go forth with this lady ... not dismissing your friend's input ... but your heart is your best guide ... there is no dilemma when you follow it and step out of fear ...

what if hj ... you turned your back on your inner voice ... never have taken the opportunity to see where this could go ...
what if ... she IS the one ...
imho ... you have nothing to lose ... but only to gain ...
if it turns out she is not the one ... then that is ok ...
if she IS the one ... then ... FIREWORKS!!!

And what happens if it doesn't work and it screws up my job?

It's bad enough that I just can't push myself to take the risk. It's times like this that I wish I knew how to use telepathy.

Also, tell me something: If a woman is super friendly to you, smiles at you and generally acts like this EVERY TIME you see her, what is that? Is that interest or is she just a really nice person? Am I reading too much into this? I can't tell anymore.

[ellie]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

And what happens if it doesn't work and it screws up my job?

It's bad enough that I just can't push myself to take the risk. It's times like this that I wish I knew how to use telepathy.

Also, tell me something: If a woman is super friendly to you, smiles at you and generally acts like this EVERY TIME you see her, what is that? Is that interest or is she just a really nice person? Am I reading too much into this? I can't tell anymore.

This is a bit of a worry for me as I am talking from experience re: work colleague relationships/affairs type thing. If it goes wrong, one of you invaribly has to leave the place of employment, only saying this because it happened to me, had to go, that was it. It is amazing how fast something like this gets around the office, it's like wild fire believe me. Other people just love this type of thing to gossip about.

On the other side I also know how you feel when you really like someone at work and your desperate to know how they would react. Okay I am thinking here, wait a sec............as far as her being nice to you whenever she sees you and smiling.....well gee, I used to do that to people I wasnt really keen on and I used to get really shy with someone I did have the hots for, but I suppose it depends on their personality.

So, if you are picking up a vibe and want to ask her out, see if there is an occasion at work coming up where you all go out to the pub, for lunch etc and maybe after a drink or two strike up a conversation. I suppose you have already found out covertly if she has a boyfriend/girlfriend? If she hasn't well then its up to you how you want to handle it my friend. I know how bloody difficult it can be with this, but I also know how it can explode in your face, because believe I am telling you now I have worked with people who hate their lives are miserable and just plod along and would give everything to be able to be young and free and single and because of their jealousy and resentment could make life hell for you, been there, done that, sold the t-shirt,

I remember I typed up a letter so no one could recognise my hand writing and sent an anonymous love note through the inter office mail.

See if you can come up with something that is proactive but also protects you as well. Let us know how you go.

[taomation]

I think that it's a good idea. Many people are spiritual or policial and Avalon embraces both.

[Ross H]

HJ, you could say...'hi *name* wanna grab a coffee(beer) after work...or whenever?

If answer is 'no thanks', let it be and try again another time. If you get a 2nd 'no thanks' then maybe reconsider her pleasantries towards you as just friends.

If she accepts, and out of the work enviroment, you can enjoy coffee/beer and just chat with her about nothing in particular, just see how it flows, you will gain some knowledge from this...for your next move...or not.

Peace.

[Humble Janitor]

Thanks for your reply, Ellie. It's something I keep hearing and I figured that the folks I know would be more supportive and encouraging but I'm just not seeing it. Maybe I should just back off.

And no, I don't know if she has someone. I'm not a creep that snoops around.

[futureyes]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

And what happens if it doesn't work and it screws up my job?

It's bad enough that I just can't push myself to take the risk. It's times like this that I wish I knew how to use telepathy.

Also, tell me something: If a woman is super friendly to you, smiles at you and generally acts like this EVERY TIME you see her, what is that? Is that interest or is she just a really nice person? Am I reading too much into this? I can't tell anymore.

hj ... then perhaps you have made up your mind to not persue this any further ...

i remember awhile back you wrote of how much you like your job ... then this is to be respected and there no longer is a dilemma ...

life is full of risks ... let us call them opportunities rather ...
when opportunity knocks ... it is for a reason ... you can answer ... or not ...
i feel ... if we answer ... we grow ...
and we learn ...
and we experience ...

growth facilitates joy and happiness ...
and as well ... we can be met with challenges ... at times with sadness ...

no experience ... is ever for not ...
free will ... is to answer the knock ... or not ...

i do understand where you are at ... i like ross h's suggestion of asking her out for coffee ...
yet if the stars align in doing so ... you are still left with your question ... that if it doesn't work for some reason ... it will mess up your job ...

only you can know your answer ...

with love ...

[Dantheman62]

Originally Posted by Swanny

I don't mind I already have pics here.




Any takers????

Does this count? LOL

[Swanny]

You making a pass at me?????

[xbusymom]

ok I found the most recent pic of me (last year)... and changed my avatar to it...

might also help if we ever have a meeting of the persons instead of just a meeting of the minds...

[Humble Janitor]

Thank you for your reply, futureyes.

I believe I will just play it safe for now. I'm more frustrated that none of my friends want to help me with finding someone but I believe they are probably afraid that I will blame them if they try to be matchmakers and it doesn't work. I'm not worried about rejection. I'm just thinking that I'm not getting any younger and I want to move on and grow and experience more out of my life.

[THE eXchanger]

iF you want to attract the right person,
then, be a reflection to the world,
of what it is, that you actually really want
and, then, you might just attract that

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

And what happens if it doesn't work and it screws up my job?

It's bad enough that I just can't push myself to take the risk. It's times like this that I wish I knew how to use telepathy.

Also, tell me something: If a woman is super friendly to you, smiles at you and generally acts like this EVERY TIME you see her, what is that? Is that interest or is she just a really nice person? Am I reading too much into this? I can't tell anymore.

ahh, she remembers you for other times
~ some very serious 'essence' rememberance is going on
~ so, just enjoy it
basque in the light of it, and, smile back
~there is NO doubt, she is a bright light
appreciate her, and, her way
~send her things in the interoffice mail
(without her knowing who is sending them)
maybe a unique coffee cup ~ with a profound saying
or, a little chocolate at easter
(do NOT rush it)
instead, have fun with it
(and, do NOT rush anything)
just like a river, and, all of the things within the river,
they always decide together,
where they are going to plot their neXt course,
the same, could be said,
about you, and, about her,
so, just allow all the eXchanges between you & her occur
& in the process, you are likely to discover a lot about her
most of all, enjoy it, and, have fun, with it
and, who knows, it just could develop
into something amasing overtime ?

[anton]

Hi Anton joining in ,my teenage sons just put me onto a rapper named Immortal Teschnique he does a down to earth and gut renching love song worth a listening to its Immortal Technique - You Never Know Lyrics ,watch it on you tube.I,ve recently had a falling in love incident at work.I make coffees for people and brighten up their day with my precence behind the counter.A customer i.ve known for 4 years suddenly became excrusiatinly disirable with her beautiful smile beaming all over the shop.I asked her out to have a coffee and she said ''no,im in a new relationship''. Thats why she was so happy.I asked to go onto her waiting list,she laughed and i havent sighted her since.So I guess the moral of this story is get your facts before making any moves.Love to the People.

[Kikine]

Haha you are all so funny. I love you all

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by THE eXchanger

ahh, she remembers you for other times
~ some very serious 'essence' rememberance is going on
~ so, just enjoy it
basque in the light of it, and, smile back
~there is NO doubt, she is a bright light
appreciate her, and, her way
~send her things in the interoffice mail
(without her knowing who is sending them)
maybe a unique coffee cup ~ with a profound saying
or, a little chocolate at easter
(do NOT rush it)
instead, have fun with it
(and, do NOT rush anything)
just like a river, and, all of the things within the river,
they always decide together,
where they are going to plot their neXt course,
the same, could be said,
about you, and, about her,
so, just allow all the eXchanges between you & her occur
& in the process, you are likely to discover a lot about her
most of all, enjoy it, and, have fun, with it
and, who knows, it just could develop
into something amasing overtime ?

Long text be damned, I appreciate your response and I think that's what I will do. I enjoy playing off of the energy she projects and it's good energy regardless.

I'm just too anxious to shed this skin of not being able to connect with people in the ways I want to connect. I feel like an outsider when it comes to this stuff.