Avalon Singles

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Swanny

Can any of you mystics out there see a woman in my near future??

it is NOT 36C

SWAMMY,
the only place you will find one,
that you could possibility do anything with,
is in The Pivot, of The NOW
the future, hasn't happened yet !!!

try looking there !!!

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

Well, my definition of sane is kind of flexible.
Basically, I have dealt with people who were looking for nothing but someone to take care of them and their affairs and that is not what I want or need in my life. As long as I never have to deal with someone like that ever again, I'll be fine.

is sane flexiable ??? the willow tree might bend,
but, eventually, the limbs do break !!!
i kind of view things, this way...as, i PEER, into my own future
(and, here's what i see)
i am looking, for what, it is, that, i can give !!!
that way, i am likely to receive, something that comes back,
that will hold the greatest of value !!!
(much is the only thing, that, can hope, to gather more)
i always want to be, "much" in any equation,
that, i choose to participate in,
isn't that really what real eXchange is all about ???
much gathers more !!!
it all starts, with taking a peer, into your yourself,
and, taking a good hard look, at what you are,
while, asking yourself that billion dollar question...
are you what you want in another ???
and, if you are, i believe, they do show up...
if you are NOT, it is likely best,
they don't show up !!!
'cause you would NOT be ready !!!
when you are ready, they do call
or, at least put in an appearance
also, they oft times, drop into your dreams
as we cross paths, with others there,
before we actually meet them, in the physical 3D earth planes...
maybe, a good idea, to focus on your dreams !

[Swanny]

Originally Posted by eXchanger

it is NOT 36C

SWAMMY,
the only place you will find one,
that you could possibility do anything with,
is in The Pivot, of The NOW
the future, hasn't happened yet !!!

try looking there !!!

I meant to say 34C
But that doesn't really matter as long as she is mad enough to put up with me then that's cool.
I think the future has happened already and we are heading into the not so unknown.
I know I've planned to meet her somewhere in the future, (I have a a very big and strong marriage line in my palm) but can't help feeling fed up waiting for her, I bet she's just taking her time putting on her make up, typical woman

By the way the names Swanny

[Swanny]

it all starts, with taking a peer, into your yourself,
and, taking a good hard look, at what you are,
while, asking yourself that billion dollar question...
are you what you want in another ???

and, if you are,
i believe, they do show up...

if you are NOT, it is likely best,
they don't show up !!!

I don't think I'm quite ready just yet, I see the negative in people more than the possitive but I'm working on that

[futureyes]

Originally Posted by Swanny

I don't think I'm quite ready just yet, I see the negative in people more than the possitive but I'm working on that

i think whilst she plays with her make up ... swanny be pressing his shirt and polishing his shoes ...

then walking to her ... he will be in fine shape to finally meet her ...

i think he be ready soon ...

[THE eXchanger]

SWANNY - WOW, that's funny;
i always thought it was SWAMMY
like swammybeyonda-whatever, that guy calls himself
(now he is a funny guy)

NOW, that, i know its SWAN,
that puts a whole new angle on peering, into things for you

SWAN energy, is quite magical
(hunsa energies) - Dr. Charles Muses, of The Lion Path,
he loved that kind of stuff (recently, i acquired a few items
from his estate-and, the energies, are really lovely)
have you ever done any reading about that ???

if i see AGENTSWANNETTE34C-
i'll send her, on her way

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by eXchanger

is sane flexiable ???

the willow tree might bend,
but, eventually, the limbs do break !!!

i kind of view things, this way...
as, i PEER, into my own future
(and, here's what i see)

i am looking,
for what, it is, that, i can give !!!
that way, i am likely to receive,
something that comes back,
that will hold the greatest of value !!!


(much is the only thing, that,
can hope, to gather more)

i always want to be, "much" in any equation,
that, i choose to participate in,
isn't that really what real eXchange is all about ???

much gathers more !!!

it all starts, with taking a peer, into your yourself,
and, taking a good hard look, at what you are,
while, asking yourself that billion dollar question...
are you what you want in another ???

and, if you are,
i believe, they do show up...

if you are NOT, it is likely best,
they don't show up !!!
'cause you would NOT be ready !!!

when you are ready, they do call
or, at least put in an appearance
also, they oft times, drop into your dreams
as we cross paths, with others there,
before we actually meet them, in the physical 3D earth planes

I'm not sure what I said that started you off on a tangent but I certainly hope that you find someone. By your picture, you're very attractive and intelligent and at least you got more going for you than I got going for me.

Cheers!

[Swanny]

Thx Susan

Will have a look at Dr. Charles stuff

[dolphin]

does anyone believe in the "twin flame" soul mate phenomenon?....

....gee, would sure be nice if he exists, i.e. ...of like-mind/intelligent, warm-hearted, incredible chemistry, and a fun spontaneous spirit w a great laugh and smile?....

[THE eXchanger]

yes, there are all types of pairings
essence twins
task companions
travelling companions (PEOPLE in other soul familes, that share your raw # in your own soul family)
twin flames/twin rays
the list is actually rather, endless
and, exceedingly intersted
when we figure out, how it all fits together
with others, who cross our paths !!!
part of the biggest reason, we are all here, right now,
is to do, just that !!!

[THE eXchanger]

love story
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7676...eature=related

[piers2210]

Remember one thing, a positive thing,...whether you are alone or in a partnership, you are always learning, and we are here to learn.

so if you are alone, its because that is the method of learning right now, so enjoy it while it lasts, because always your true love will come sooner or later and the things you learn will change.

If you are in a relationship, you have the chance to learn other things than when you are alone...but both are relevant. only very special relationships allow you to be as creative as when you are alone, so its not necessarily a bad thing to be alone, but travelling is a great thing to do with your partner, assuming you want the same things....

a relationship is only superior to being alone if you and your partner really are "together", in thought and style, and desires...THEN it is the best thing ever....

[Humble Janitor]

I have noticed more concern among certain female friends of mine, especially concerning my health. I'm not one to read too much into things but it's always nice to know that someone cares, since a lot of my friends are usually too preoccupied with their drama to notice.

Gosh, this is the first time I've checked out the "singles' zone...
as I'm a "married" woman.. am I out of line?...

lol

I entered in on this page, page 12 and I have to say it's quite dull in here.

If any MEN ( I mean male essenced ones) would like to know the secret to having a fulfilling sexual life with your woman. please ask.

Then again, perhaps I will not answer... it's a pending book.

All the published books about sexuality/relationships have ALL missed this point.. (as I smile to myself)...

I mean, in the single arena, I'd expect you "all' would be talkiong some serious insider b'ness... but, alas, it's just casual bs...

So, kick me out.. I'm married... I'm trespassing... lol..
look for my book in the near future...

ta ta ... better yet, why not (those of you who frequent here) start the dialog about what you think opens a woman for lovemanking.
Else, just blow this off... like I said, I just clicked in... out of curiosity and am not glad that I did... it's so boring in here.

[Czymra]

a relationship is only superior to being alone if you and your partner really are "together", in thought and style, and desires...THEN it is the best thing ever....

Can't stress this enough. If you're more alone with your partner than in solitude, well, kick it out.

All the published books about sexuality/relationships have ALL missed this point.. (as I smile to myself)...

I mean, in the single arena, I'd expect you "all' would be talkiong some serious insider b'ness... but, alas, it's just casual bs...

Not sure how this fits here, we left Astral Sex behind us like 10 pages.
How about you tell us the name of your book?

[piers2210]

EpiphaMe, not sure what you expected when you visited this site, guys talking about who they pulled last night,or women talking about their latest breast enhancement?...

i'm always curious about someone who wants to tell me about having good sex though (so i await with interest your book), but a quality porn video can tell you a lot, as the guys are ripped and know what they are doing,...

but if you can master tantric sex (the guy must be fairly fit), where your partner has multiple orgasms while you ensure you never orgasm yourself, over (say) a minimum of 40-60 mins, and continue this through the nights and years ahead...then your (female) partner WILL be happy. All you need to do then is overcome some small human traits, like jealousy, control, possessiveness...and you have the basis for a match made in heaven...

Has this post spiced it up a bit for you?

[THE eXchanger]

As, the girl guides say, be prepared...
for men who want to experience multiples,
it isn't too unlike, exercises for women who want to do the same

http://www.associatedcontent.com/art...nce.html?cat=5

anything spicey, that ever got posted here
PA / PC moderators, asked for it to be removed
as, this site, is also read by children

i kind of have to laugh about that,
as, i am sure, most kids, who are old enough to read,
or, would be interested to read here,
likely already know where/and, how they come into existence.

i hope your book, is stuffed full of spicey ideas,
be sure, to write it, so people don't flip to page 12,
and, miss anything on pages 1-11

In 1953 a well-known therapist defined it as "an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tension". There are other definitions, but the word 'tension' comes up in most. Which suggests that when you have sex you deliberately wind yourself up just so that you can experience the pleasure of returning to normal afterwards.

Orgasm is not limited to the genitals; some people can experience orgasm without their genitals even being touched.

Some people describe the sensation as a "tingle";
and, some people describe feelings go all over the body.

When it comes to sex - be creative - you have to make every kiss,
just a little different than the last one - and, everything to do with it special,
for the most part - it is an energetic eXchange
of the lowest, and, of the highest order

and, you are NOT very likely to get out of it, anymore,
than you are willing to put into it,

personally, i have NEVER had a bad sex experience,
however, i suppose, i also haven't sleep with a lot of men,
so, i am certainly, NOT an expert, when it comes to processing numbers,
also, i think, you got to have something going on,
like all of your other senses engaged, from your feelings,
to your taste buds, to all of your sensatory organs, etc.,
it is way more, than, quick pass in the night,
or, some kind of 4 minute type of exchange,
what's that old saying...
(i think its what my mother uses)
she is a fox in the living room, and, a tiger in the bedroom,
and, a lion in the hall, etc.,

ahh--i am sure, you get my drift

hopefully; i have NOT coloured outside of the lines,
of being appropriate, as, more often, than NOT,
we are actually asked to trim our posts,
of the "real" meat, and, NOT leave up our potatoes

Also, i think, on a site like this,
we are likely to be rather conservative, in what we post,
with reference, to our own, sexual preferences, etc.,
when in fact, we might be, a little more exciting,
then, you give us credit for,

never-the-less,
if you are writing a book, that will teach us more,
i say bring it on, i am sure, it is a much needed secret piece of information,
that, will holds the potential, to get really used, in a great way...
how soon is your book coming out ???
(and, i was just teasin' you about pages 1-11)

[Carmen]

Forget spicey , forget technique, what a load of ballocks!! Finding the right mate is about coming from the heart, in perfect honesty and integrity. Its sure as hell not about what you do its what you are. Its about looking into someones eyes and knowing and no amount of cold technique will accomplish anything!! Love is not something you learn its about what you are !!!

[THE eXchanger]

perhaps, i was raised in too disciplined environment,
i was always taught, anything worth doing,
is worth doing well --and, not something to be rushed through.

Perhaps, i've lived a lot of my life, in a desert,
NOT getting any, since, i am picky, about partners...

i think good energetic exchange,
esp. good seX is the most beautiful thing
two people can share -- and, it is something you put all of you into,
NOT just parts of you !!!
it creates a much gathers more, type of senario

i can't imagine, choosing to sleep with someone
who didn't want to toss all of themselves into the ring,
so, i suppose, having great eyes, and, a great smile,
and, having my heart in high gear, is something,
to me, that is an obvious given ...
and, all that, would need be there,
existing also in a parter
before, i'd have sex with someone --
we become who we sleep with
so, thus, i am picky
however, personally, i believe,
it is a great way, to span many gambits, at the same time,
from peace to passion, chemistry to caring, laughter to love,
and, personally, if i had all those things, i wouldn't mind it, a bit,
if someone also lusted after me -- i think, people can have good sex,
at almost any age

[THE eXchanger]

good sex - is a lot like preparing food

which does require technique

there is a reason- sugar/and, spice is used, in almost everything

as, it makes your back teeth water

[piers2210]

Carmen, I think we all agree that we don't really need another book on the subject, and we all agree that good sex involves giving from the heart, but....

... wouldn't it be nice for sex to take longer than Irving Wallace's banned book "seven minutes" that he allegedly wrote in the 70's, or Paulo Coehlo's "eleven minutes" which he DID write in 2003, the "eleven" being the alleged timeframe for a hooker to complete her transaction with a client...though Coehlo also indicated that he wrote the book to allow the world to discover the sacred nature of sex....that we all live somewhere which spans from the fairytale to the abyss...

But of course love making IS about love, and you can't have good sex without that beautiful feeling between two people...

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Kathleen

Many who are on a spiritual journey,
both single and couples, practice celibacy.

What do you enlightened ones think of that?

MANY DO...and, i say, good for them,
it should be a free choice
(after all, i would NOT want to take a man by force)

i once went 8 1/2 years without sex...
(without someone else) and, i hate to say it,
but, it was truly awful, feeling like you lived in a desert...
and, i discovered, i truly did miss NOT having another warm body to love ...
and, to exchange with ... and, i'd rather age gracefully, with another

it all boils down to one thing,
personal/and, mutual choices !!!

there is no right, or no wrong to sex - it just is, what it is

hopefully creative/and, good - after all, i think, body expression,
is an art form

trouble is, some people will say they have an appetite for it,
and, trouble is, some people will say almost anything to get hitched,
and, then after the ride starts, there is NO appetite

i think that would be sad,
and, i sure wouldn't want to live in the desert,
so, i would want someone with an appetite

personally, i feel, that if, you are wanting to rise your kundalini,
it's a lot more fun, and, a lot more interesting,
to do it, with another you really love,
and, experiment with it, as it can be quite enlightening experience,
also, it holds within it,
the potenital for the highest of lows, as, well as,
the highest of highs.

There isn't anything,
that can run you through your scales, quite the same way as,
physical contact can, although, it also dovetails,
throught the emotional and, the intellectual too,
and, out into the spiritual bodies, and, beyond --
so, it can be quite an encompassing experience...


personal choices, are very important,
as, well, as, the freedom to exerciSe, that right !!!

we are quite electric beings, and, however it is,
that, you want to run, your circuits, is fine with me,
alone
with someone else,
and/or NOT at all
all viable options

[piers2210]

Kathleen, you raise a very interesting question, but, like susan says, i think you learn more through bodily contact, though i am certain i was a monk at some other past life.

We are here on earth to learn, and i have found that two things speed up that process of learning : sex and travel.

These activities act as a "microwave" for learning in this realm, and i recommend both to everyone.

Why? Because without interaction at a very personal level with people, we cannot learn. I am not a fan of one night stands, but i think ALL contact at a physical level should help you to learn. Sex, however, is something which gets better and better as you and your true love get to know each other over a long period. Thus, i don't think abstinence is a good way to learn in this life, though a different sort of learning can be achieved if you extract yourself from everyday life and go to a monastic retreat, away from living. But to live in the bustling world without sex would be hard for a long period.

[Czymra]

We are here on earth to learn, and i have found that two things speed up that process of learning : sex and travel.

[Dantheman62]

Single and free,
Is the way to be!