* URGENT * Mind Parasites @ Avalon

Originally Posted by Ethel

Sometimes we have the tendency to blame others or outside objects for our issues when really we can control every aspect of our lives through our will. By doing so we further expand ourselves and come to know ourselves in greater magnitude. It's by our will, our desire to exist and further be, that we feed into the illusion of existence. It's through our nonexistence that we are free to be whatever we will.

(I do not think this has been quoted enough...hehe)

My Father said something similar to me.
He said: "90% of our problems in life is caused by ourselves."

Trust me...I am still trying to 'Learn/Grok' that little piece of advice today.
He said this to me when I was around 20 years old....
It has always stuck with me.

Blaming Others is a National Pastime anymore.
Or so it seems....
Accepting Responsibility for our own actions is a lost art....

When it comes to how we treat others many, many of us have forgoten the Golden Rule.
It seems that people would rather be 'right' and hear themselves talk then paying attention to how they say what they say.
Taking a few extra minutes to 'Salt Your Words' before speaking/typing them would do wonderful things in my opinion.

It is not what we say but, how we say it...

[Norval]

Blaming Others is a National Pastime anymore.
Or so it seems....
Accepting Responsibility for our own actions is a lost art....

well said Old Dood

[PodWORLD]

I've always found that 'posts' seem to be a mix of what we would normally say and what we 'think' with that little inner voice.

[Zynox]

Originally Posted by Old Dood

It is not what we say but, how we say it...

Dood, welcome back, and I reflect, how fast we use the EDIT button.

... a most cool / awesome feature in this software > EDIT ... I have INCREASED my respect for many based on watching what they edited away ... and attribute it to sincere attempts, to, battle the parasitic infections ...

hey, I got worms, that said, I take probiotics ... and, I EDIT ...

~ namaste / Got Worms / Parasites? ~

[Wildfire]

Planet Earth and i talk alot, she tells me there are pretty much two groups in this world. The first is the unawaken, the ipod loony, who doesn't care that the forests, our future breathe is being destroyed. They just want the latest gadget. The other group is the awakened , however they seem to be angry at each other, or the illuminati, the governments, the world banks, the "New World Order" as well as the unawaken. Both groups do not serve me. I want you to realise that every thought feeling and action create my tomorrows. start with love and end with love.
Follow "Good words to live by" and have some respect for all that grace this world.
Are you perfect? Love all of yourself, which means everybody who is here, as anything you see in this world that you don't like is a reflection of you, or you would not attract it into your life.
We all make mistakes and all mistakes can be forgiven. Be a loving Powerful creator at this very special and magical time.
That will give me, Planet Earth, the creative energy and love i seek.
Planet Earths humble opinion for you humans to ponder over!
love to everyone, even g.w.bush!
ha ha wildfire!!!!!!!

... sort of like "you spot it, you got it?" I spotted it before & got it, which is why I still see it... can't unrecognize experience! Which is why many of us admit & invlude our own parasitic infestation when discussing the subject of negativity. I admire many here, the manner of their words, and in email, that can be an outright challenge at times.

and, Oh Ethel (echo echo).. I too wish you return to help understand this you wrote: [ "It's by our will, our desire to exist and further be, that we feed into the illusion of existence. It's through our nonexistence that we are free to be whatever we will".]

As for the edit button, some times I wish for an automatic "park it" feature that kicks it back after a short while....! It is a practice indeed choosing words wisely, especially email, no tone of voice or facial expressions, not to mention I'm a potty mouth. I remember well those matchdotcom fiascos........(smirks)

It can be sort of like becoming a former smoker, all of a sudden, other smokers are deemed suicide machines. Same w/self awareness, some are farther along the road of practice, some haven't even started. And it can gripe me bumm to no end sometimes (giggles)... get to catch myself again! It goes on n on n on...

What about all the looooooooooooooooove ? I'm about love-sick, you? (paleeze, I'm just jokin')