Avalon Singles

[THE eXchanger]

swammy, maybe you were the real mr. right
and, then, who they think,
is mr. right-is actually mr. wrong
and, then, after awhile,
they realise, they are with the wrong / right guy
and, then,
they realise, just how terrific you really were
& still are !!!

is that something, like taking 4 right turns,
to keep heading the same way, on the high way of life ???

[Czymra]

Originally Posted by Dantheman62

Jack,Czymra,Swanny,it's all a game, hint "the three second look"

I prefer to stare down girls in the tube. HAha!
When one doesn't look away, we've got a candidate.

[THE eXchanger]

i am getting some strange attacks through the ethers...
maybe, some of you, spirited types,
can come to my rescue

you think, they would leave me alone,
since, i am doing book-keeping / accounting work,
that is likely to send their garden some green

however, their G.S.T. (THE GOUGE & SCREW TAX) IN CANADA
is likely, to return some green, to my lawn
(just another way, they track you here)

i would like to stop, to write my damn book,
but, i can NOT seem to afford to stop, to do it,

& NOW, they have given me a deadline--
& on the GST side, where the deadline is,
& they owe me a $6000 refund ???
once, i finish, that part of it
(they are really nuts, the government, chasing you,
when, they owe you money ???)

[Jack]

Originally Posted by vipassana

Here’s my comment on Jack’s post (no offence Jack just my personal view) :-


1.Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.

[COLOR="Blue"]I would not be attracted to someone who continually reacts emotionally to scenarios by getting peeved off. This would make me think that the person was unable to discern between dispositional qualities and situational factors. Situational factors, like the name suggests, are factors present in a given situation (like spilling a drink). They are the causes for a behavior: Slippy glass, shaky hand due to an illness, distraction due to worry about someone close being ill, a hemorrhoid flare-up, worry about financial difficulties etc.

I should have elaborated a bit more on that. It was in the context that if someone intentionally spilled their drink there would be a desirable emotional reaction gauged accordingly to the scenario. But that was just an example. Ability to emote includes the ability to love animals to feeling sad when something upsetting happens and all the other multitude of emotions we are capable of.

Of course everyone has specific tastes. Likes and dislikes. But this an instinctual hardwired reaction which was in place to ensure the survival of the human race when our acestors lived in tribes.

And in most cases looks dont matter, if a man displays these four characteristics woman will be automatically attracted to him just like a man is attracted to a beautifull woman. Its to ensure that the lineage goes on and the family survives.

Dont ask how i know this, i just do.

[Swanny]

Susan it's ok I don't mind that I wasn't their Mr Right, that really isn't a problem
Just think that it's weird that it happens.
I don't have a problem being single, things are exactly the way they are meant to be.

[Dantheman62]

I can't believe how many people spell your name wrong Swanny!, it's so funny,I mean it's a simple name compared to like Czymra or something. LOL!, no offense to anyone, I mean it really is funny, as in HaHa that's all...oops off topic!....rotes t:

[piers2210]

I like your little men, Dan!! Especially the "ban" one hehehe.

Susan, no way will ANYONE get you!!

P.

[Swanny]

I dont understand why it happens, maybe I should change it hehe

[Dantheman62]

Yeah LOL!, Change it to something like cxzytsvujsw3.

[Swanny]

Maybe I should change it to Swammy

[Lunaris]

Originally Posted by Jack

I'm not quite sure if there is any single person who is mr. or mrs. right. Human attraction is based pretty much on a few different factors and is almost always predictable if not entirely a science in itself.

For a woman to be attracted to a man it is not based on his soul it is based on his attitude and the way he conducts himself which can be changed pretty easily with minimal effort.

Woman are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to men who have four characteristics ;

1. Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
2. Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.
3. Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.
4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.

Any man with these four qualities is "Mr. Right". There is no deviating from this as it is a natural survival hardwired trait shared by every single human being on this planet.

Human attraction is entirely physiological and psychological in nature. This is a primordial instinct which stems from the times when human beings lived in tribes. And it hasnt changed one bit since then.

If you want to get mrs right you have to be mr right.

yeah jack...your are definately talking about the "typical" female..

and yeah...a "typical" equation is easy enough to find to explain motives/reactions etc...

i am not typical...

my ex's have had some of those traits but mostly after they met me they would get more attention from females than before they met me...loads of my bf's girls thought were gay till they saw how happy we were together then they all tried to hav e sex with them...

i never hold anyone back from doing what they really want..

but i do like to be fair..whats good for the gander is good for the goose in my opinion!

swanny i totally get you!

all my bf's were much better bf's after they went out with me..but they never get as much freedom as when we went out...but...they are much more understanding for the next girl although they always complain about being smothered...ahahhahahaha!

but when we were together i was accused of not being smothering enuff!!!


aahhahahhahahhaha!

[THE eXchanger]

its funny; thinking about this, as, i see
we oft times, repeat patterns

my pattern, has often been,
men who are too busy for a relationship,
and, then, i get myself too busy,
so, i don't have idle time, to miss them,
and, more often, than NOT they are at a distance,
and, you escape together, once in awhile...
now, i am just too busy having too work too hard
just to make ends meet in a big city...
without going into debt
there are times, i feel, like i will NEVER escape it...
and, there just isn't any extra time, for options
(i am sure, i am NOT the only one who lives this way)
so, i might as well, just build a business
(since, if a business, can work in this economy,
it will likely hold the potential to be a successful one)
i gave up, on thinking, that, a man on a white horse,
was coming to get me
eventually, i will have time, to do some audio /dvd's
and, with the money, i earn from doing those,
maybe, i can go out, and, capture myself a templar mansion
and, turn that into a radiant zone

besides, i guess, i get tired of paying to play,
and, nothing more, than, a bunch of empty promises
i want a partner in life - nothing less will do -
and, as, i am seeing things here, i will NEVER get out of here alone
what is funny; and; ironic about this - is, even though i was alone,
i never built this, for just me, although, at the end of the day,
it is always, just me, against the world, alone -
and, there are days, i think, of mortgaging theplace to the max,
packing my RAV4, and, never returning (too bad, i wasn't in the usa)
here you have to put a lot of money down, to get into a house,
as, a single self-employed female (so, i have too much in, to walk away
from it) besides, edgar casey, always said this area is safe...
i would just rather NOT be in the city - but, out in the country,
and, maybe find a local barn, that i can board a horse at
watching that video on earthship homes on the www.stclairzone.ning.com
was pretty interesting, what 45,000 will build you--
hopefully a few of us, from this area, will attend a course,
in the spring/summer, to find out about it

i value, people who are caring/kind/considerate and thoughtful
and, funny !!! and, are willing to work, at common goals...
hopefully, they would be resourceful, like me --
if i had someone else, that worked as hard as i do,
it would be half as easy to get all the important things done,
and, then, oft times, i wonder...
do people today, really have time, for a social life ???

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by Swanny

I'm going to get myself a dog for company

I got a cat. All he wants is food and attention though. Selfish little punt.

Also, I don't believe in a Mrs.Right. There's no such thing. I'm resigned to just living life for the moment and not trying to get caught up in things that I can't deal with and so far, it's a nice existence.

[Lunaris]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

I got a cat. All he wants is food and attention though. Selfish little punt.

Also, I don't believe in a Mrs.Right. There's no such thing. I'm resigned to just living life for the moment and not trying to get caught up in things that I can't deal with and so far, it's a nice existence.

HAHA! I have a cute cute bratty doggy..

I would say i agree with the fact that i don't believe in a "MR Right" either...when i was younger I was so into the "soulmate" thing..I ended up thinking each one was THE ONE!

The breakups were bad when he would say "but...but..I thought I was your soulmate..."

eh...no....i was wrong!...

over and over and over and over again!

oh well...

i must say i am very happy and content these days though ...no drama!

whoooooooooooooo!

[Lunaris]

i like brainy guys...guys that are a bit "odd"..and skinny..usually...

i think beauty is very subjective...to me they are super super cute but they are not typical..like a male model/actor..

i am not into that look..or too many muscles...

the movie donnie darko...if i was still in high school he would definately be my bf....odd,smart,kinda an outsider...cuteness!

ahahhahahhaa!

hmmmm...the guy who works next door is kinda like that...

uh oh...

ahahahhahaa...

nah....

i want to move to europe next year..the last thing i need is a "tragic love story" right before i get there...

ahhhhhhhhhhh....

i hope there are cool guys in europe!

[THE eXchanger]

i can NOT say,
i like gaunt/or real skinny-extremely thin types of men
to me, they are NOT a big turn_on
anymore, than, i like a heavy/or overweight men,
which is a huge turn off
i kind of like ratios of about 5 foot 10 - 180 lbs
maybe as short as 5'7" 160 lbs to 6 foot - 200 lbs
to my height of 5'4" - 128 lbs (which is less than 9.9 stones)
(however, most men, consider my height, as, being short)
if i put on high heels, i am taller

on the topic of dreaming, and, dream-time
how many of you think,
people appear in your dreams, before they cross your path down here ???

and, how many of you, invite people into your dreams ???

perhaps, a way, to slip around the NOT so popular topic of A.S.

[Lunaris]

ahahahhahha!

exchanger you are awesome rad!

yeah i don't like too skinny either..but i definately don't like too "perfect"...like a movie star kinda...i like them a bit rougher around the edges..

..edgier maybe??

I often dream of things before they happen and people as well...its hard cuz they don't always "appear" as how i dream them..or to be more precise...when i dream them they look different then they do in "real life"...

i had a dream of working in the place i am now about 2 years ago..

i became lucid and started "investigating" my surroundings...like "where am I??"

then...i realize..."oh! i work in a print shop! how funny!"

did not have any plans or ambitions at the time to work in a print shop....

...but...here i am!

the weird thing is sometimes i wonder if i am actually dreaming or am i going back and forth thru time?? because when i realized i had dreamt of this place it was when the "exact same" situation repeated from as in the dream...like a deja vu..

in the "dream" i was talking to my co-worker paul...he looked different of course but when we were in the exact same place same conversation i CLICK realized...woah...this is that dream i had!

these kinds of things happen loads...

[Humble Janitor]

I am not picky about women as much as it seems that women are picky about men on here.

I do not want a super-skinny woman and I do not want a super-overweight woman. I prefer balance.

[Lunaris]

are you talking about what i said??

ahahhahahhahhaa!!!

yeah...balance...

i guess i am talking more about what the girls in the city i live in now like...and how i don't...

that's why i said "skinny"

cuz they all like "buff"..."movie star,rock star" hotness....

and what i think is "hot" is so very different...

dunno if you were in fact talking about what i said...

but..

now that i went this tangent i am happy i cleared that up!

yay!

[piers2210]

Hey what are all you people on the other side of the pond doing up and about?? Haven't you got anything better to do than talk on this thread?? Only joking.

If you want to see REALLY good bodies, you have to rent a porn dvd. Oops....here we go again!! Now I'm not gay whatsoever, but I like to see guys who don't have fat on them, and these guys are ripped.

[Humble Janitor]

Just remember, even the hottest supermodel in the world will age: Her boobs will sag, her face will develop pock marks and she'll shrivel up in the usual spots.

Trying to say that in the long run, personality goes further.

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by piers2210

Hey what are all you people on the other side of the pond doing up and about?? Haven't you got anything better to do than talk on this thread?? Only joking.

I work the graveyard shift.

[Lunaris]

i think i am a gay guy reincarnated as a woman.

[Czymra]

Originally Posted by Lunaris

i think i am a gay guy reincarnated as a woman.

Your recent posts really entertain me. Keep going.

[Lunaris]

Originally Posted by Czymra

Your recent posts really entertain me. Keep going.

ahahhahahhahahha!

AHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAAA!

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh..

...a freak amongst freaks...!

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