Are You a Believer in "Love Your Enemies"?

I love my enemies for hate is counter productive to my
own well being.

Yet I struggle with the concept of perfect pacifism. When
it comes to my family I could not stand by and pray
while they were hurt.

As the old joke says; " Sir, I would not hurt thee for the
world, but thou standist where I am about to shoot!"

You don't need to hate them to fight them. You just want
them to stop and go in peace. If they refuse then you help
them along.