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Old 02-21-2010, 06:00 PM   #4
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Default Re: Thank you for blaming yourself (very deep subject here)

Hi Clarityofawareness – good to see you back.

Many moons ago I changed my perspective from ‘blame’ to responsibility.

The way I’ve come to see it is that blaming yourself or anyone else is judgemental and disempowering and brings into play the concept of victimhood. However, taking responsibility is empowering as it also gives you the option to do something about it and the ‘poor me’ card can be chucked in the garbage where it belongs.
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