[THE eXchanger]

question: i am worried about leaving others behind
my spouse, isn't growing, like i am, they just kind of sit there,
and, shake their head, don't want to know the truth,
and, watch their romance movies, or, read books, many of them,
sometimes, more than just one in a day.
what are your comments on this?

Answer:
do NOT worry

on the topic of leaving others behind

- you never, leave anyone behind
you just move up, and, meet their higher eXpressions
and, eventually, they do catch up

often as they see favourable/or good changes in you

they get curious, and, will eventually eXplore
your positive changes

you can NOT worry, and, be happy at the same time

since you can NOT hold two opposite thoughts/or feelings at the same time

however, observing, is an action - that has one, simply watching

and, for the most part observers, viciously, live life,
through NON involvement with others,
and, instead, prefer to learn through watching movies/or, reading books,
while, it does provide them with some eXperience,
other peoples experiences, which, if they don't like a movie,
in midstream, they can turn it off, and, if they do NOT like a book,
they can close the cover, and, NEVER open up the book again.

Relationships with others, do NOT operate that way,
although, these types of people - think they are involved,
and, think, they know everything, sitting off alone in the distance,
they are NOT very easy people, for others, to ever get close to,
simply because, they do NOT allow it ...
they are much more comfortable,
to sit alone, in their look-out towers...
viewing and watching others, and, doing that alone.

almost all people prefer pleasure, over pain
and, almost all people prefer to be with others,
who have the same interests, so, they can foster,
a true 'eXchange' with ~ very likely, why you are here
and, why they are 'nose in a book', or 'eyes glued to tv"

we have left a lot of people behind,
and, we know, that, it is true,
you always move up, to meet their higher eXpressions,
a long time, before they ever meet themselves,
in higher levels ~ some do, however, most do NOT
(which is sad, but true)


love/susan
the eXchanger