Hello Frank,
As ever you touched my heart and soul with your beautiful comments. I especially liked the analogy of the camera lens which is out of focus. As a result you only get blurred images. I have a son as well and you inspire me a lot. I liked it when your son told you your lens was out of focus. It reminded me of the beginning of a Woody Allen movie where 'daddy 's out of focus' which I found here and would like to share with you:
Peace, light and focussed intention with a sauce of healing Solfeggios
xxdA.