[Carol]

I read these threads and am constantly shaking my head these days.

Avalon is about finding safe places, information and resources for building communities and site suggestions.

What difference does it make if Bill or Kerry agree? Bill's current focus is Avalon and Kerry's Camelot. Camelot has always been Kerry's primary interest. Camelot is also in Kerry's name for the simple reason that she is a US citizen who lives in California and Bill is not a US citizen and lives in Europe. Whether they were a couple or not is nobody's business.

Kerry has her own focus with her own priorities as does Bill. When they do agree they work together on a project. When their focus is elsewhere their attention is on what works for them as individuals.

If the OP is referring to the kinsuemie2 situation... disagreement was likely due to the two having different pieces of information. And it is likely that Kerry, who is here in the US, has a closer tab on what is going on then Bill, who is thousands of miles away in Europe.