Tamarie, I feel sad every time I hear somebody get the vaccine and it must be especially hard when it is your little girl. If this is any consolation, I know many people (toddlers included) who have gotten the Swine Flu vaccine and they seem perfectly fine. In fact, I do not
personally know anyone who has gotten sick from the Swine Flu vaccine.
From my meager understanding, the main problem with certain batches of the vaccine (with squalene) is that it makes some people's immune system hyperactive. It is doubly bad because certain strains of the Swine Flu also make people's immune system hyperactive.
Your daughter will probably be fine, but just in case, bashi posted an excellent thread about a acute strain of the Swine Flu and how to prevent/cope -
http://projectavalon.net/forum/showthread.php?t=19578
Also, this is the website of the doctor who detoxed Desiree Jennings after she got sick from the seasonal flu vaccine -
http://drbuttar.com/
Hope you are not upset with your husband. He probably prefers to "live inside a box" like my husband and most people out there.
Wish your little girl great health and happiness!