this isn`t so easy really...so some received some physical beating
others got "killed" verbally...
the good old bible tells us to use the "rod"...
a short beating is over faster than a verbal conflict..
-the scars of physical punishment can be seen the scars of verbal abuse can`t be seen and last longer.
is a normal upbringing one where there was no beating but lots of verbal "bashing" ? and a ruff upbringing is one where the "rod" was used for discipline?
or is the ruff upbringing the one where constant verbal abuse and physical beating (black and blue on a daily basis) by some drunken parents was the norm?