[futureyes]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

I wanted to ask someone out at work but most of the advice I am getting from "friends" says that it's too risky or it's creepy or so forth. It's discouraging. It's like they automatically think that it's a bad idea.

I feel so discouraged and yet, so torn because a co-worker I feel, is sending me signals. It is so frustrating. I want to break out of this shell so bad.

dear hj ...

wait no longer within your frustration ... your heart speaks to go forth with this lady ... not dismissing your friend's input ... but your heart is your best guide ... there is no dilemma when you follow it and step out of fear ...

what if hj ... you turned your back on your inner voice ... never have taken the opportunity to see where this could go ...
what if ... she IS the one ...
imho ... you have nothing to lose ... but only to gain ...
if it turns out she is not the one ... then that is ok ...
if she IS the one ... then ... FIREWORKS!!!

we are meant to step out of fear ... the "risk" will take care of itself if this is really what you want to persue ...
it will just be ...

i don't understand what is "creepy" about it ... i think it is creepier experiencing this current dilemma ...

go on ... listen to your heart ...