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Originally Posted by Swanny
Gone past the lonely stage, now I'm at the fed up and p*ssed off with being a lone stage  
Can any of you mystics out there see a woman in my near future??  |
Hi Swanny
I'm no mystic so I can't predict your future for you! However having been single for many years I've gone through a variety of emotions regarding that state.
A few years ago I was working through a bout of severe loneliness and a person who I considered wise suggested something to me. He said that rather than think of myself as being lonely I could try thinking of myself as being alone. In addition he suggested that I could embrace my aloneness and treat myself really well.
I thought it was great advice and found that working on the different way of thinking really makes a difference. I tend to be more motivated to go out and do things that make me feel good. I'm more likely to go to something new on my own. I went to salsa dancing classes which I was **** at but it was great fun
. There were about 18 women and 2 men in the class....it might be worth hecking if there are salsa dancing classes in your area
I'm not trying to give advice here just sharing something that has really helped me to enjoy being single a lot more.