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Originally Posted by water42 
it is when you are not looking when someone great usually comes marching in. so i won't look for anyone. i'll just peek.
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I think there's something to this. I met the woman who is now my wife after I had decided I wasn't looking and absolutely would not get into a long distance relationship. I think that because I wasn't "looking" I was able to interact more like a normal human being and less like a desperate lonely guy trying to pick someone up. When we parted after first meeting I had no thought of contacting her. She contacted me. We dated long distance (1000 miles - lots of plane tickets) for over two years and then got married.