[THE eXchanger]

i also think, it is easier, to just dance with the memories,
of what once was, and, leave it, at that,
eventually; things do, come full circle,
so, what purpose, is there, to dating a lot of people,
i am NOT the type, who can lead anyone on
(although, teasing can be fun)

i know from 13 til about 39 - i didn't have any time, in between relationships
and, from 39-48, i went through a
hopelessly loving/hopelessly loved monad
(that's where you love them, but, they don't know what to do with you,
NOR, how to have you on equal footing)
for the past 2 years, i've kind of enjoyed being single

besides, its a lot cheaper, and, a lot less aggreviating
to date in your dreams !!!

and, you can leave that behind you,
when you get up in the morning !!!

and, pick up the threads, where you left them,
before you got out of bed

i don't know, but, myself -- i am really picky

i have no problem with giving love --
however, i know, i have a very high level of discernment,
in what, i do/or do NOT want

ahh !!! it is frustrating, at times to be single

however, i'd rather be single & happy,
than, hooked and snared-and, unhappy

sooner, or later, i am sure, life will deal me up a King of Hearts !!!