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Originally Posted by vipassana
Here’s my comment on Jack’s post (no offence Jack just my personal view) :-
1.Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
[COLOR="Blue"]I would not be attracted to someone who continually reacts emotionally to scenarios by getting peeved off. This would make me think that the person was unable to discern between dispositional qualities and situational factors. Situational factors, like the name suggests, are factors present in a given situation (like spilling a drink). They are the causes for a behavior: Slippy glass, shaky hand due to an illness, distraction due to worry about someone close being ill, a hemorrhoid flare-up, worry about financial difficulties etc.
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I should have elaborated a bit more on that. It was in the context that if someone intentionally spilled their drink there would be a desirable emotional reaction gauged accordingly to the scenario. But that was just an example. Ability to emote includes the ability to love animals to feeling sad when something upsetting happens and all the other multitude of emotions we are capable of.
Of course everyone has specific tastes. Likes and dislikes. But this an instinctual hardwired reaction which was in place to ensure the survival of the human race when our acestors lived in tribes.
And in most cases looks dont matter, if a man displays these four characteristics woman will be automatically attracted to him just like a man is attracted to a beautifull woman. Its to ensure that the lineage goes on and the family survives.
Dont ask how i know this, i just do.
