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Originally Posted by Jack
This isnt being sexist or anything it is just a fact and of course information like this might seem a tad controversial because it could easily be used to take advantage of woman, which i dont condone in the least. And a fact that a lot of woman will be unwilling to admit. But thats just the way it is, calling a spade a spade.
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I don't really mean to disarm what you said. In many ways there is more truth in it that I and supposedly many women would want to admit.
Nevertheless, I can easily sum up such a list for men, or for me for that sake, as well.
1. Must looks acceptable, how else are you going to sleep with her?
2. Must somehow appreciate, understand, respect, adore, either or all.
3. Must be mother and whore. Nothing wrong with that. Go figure.
4. May never allow to be completely be figured out or will be dropped like a hot potato.
Now, I've got a list that I may not fully respect, but something that, if the words were not so harsh, can agree with. (Alright, it's my list, tell me if you agree or not.)
But hey, Burgundia has made a valid point. If those 4 points are fulfilled, here I go, I can live with and love anybody, proven fact indeed. Is it healthy and does it make her Mrs. Right? No, because I love to exchange things beyond what's commonly understood as 'value of a relationship'.
This is where it gets interesting though, if I combine what you said with what was said earlier "love men less and understand them more, understand women less and love them more" it ends up either as a complete contract between partners i.e. "We agree to fake love for each other so we both get the gains of it." Or in fact it's a matter of "We recognise these basic necessities but beyond them our love is infinite and unconditional."
Can it be unconditional if the list is fulfilled? I'm not sure, they are conditions in a sense but I wouldn't be surprised if both is true.
I might not have found the right words to get this across, indeed I'm sure I failed miserably, but maybe someone gets it anyway.
Be that as it may, let the ladies speak... and I do hope you gals are honest.