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THIS IS FOR EVERYONE WHO HAS HAD EXPERIENCE OF STRUGGLING OR ADJUSTING EMOTIONALLY TO THE CURRENT CHANGES AT HAND!
There are millions of us out there..all feeling compartmentalised, disjointed, confused... Now, we are growing in numbers.... it is important to express how all this is affecting you, when there is so many conflicting daily issues to juggle! Family, friends, society, peers, and many more who totally believe the matrix is real ....will no doubt be a major source of angst, frustration and confusion to many, as their research/experience/insight is belittled and laughed at! THIS THREAD IS INTENDED AS A PLATFORM FOR SUPPORT/DISCUSSION/INSIGHT/ADVICE THE PLATFORM IS OPEN........... please share and support one another! ................:thumb_yello: |
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Firehorse!
You are an angel Mum and a care giver, thanks for your amazing energy ! Frank !:original: |
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aawww CONDE thats very kind...just trying to contribute anyways i can...!!
I am not in the mood right now to verbalise some of the emotions that run through me in recent months..however, here is a song/visual which summerises on many levels how i can feel....nostalgic, sad, visionary, human! etc... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLkE... hope u all resonate with the lyrics and enjoy the visual scene! |
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Here are some emotional signatures that may be helpful. This is channeled information that is based on how events move through our 7 tiered energy system.
Root: Imprinting Stage (an event happens) Lumbar: Fear or Courage (we have feelings about the event) Solar Plexus: Integrative Stage (we become attached to our feelings) Heart: Anger or Compassion (we center our feelings) Throat: Vocal Stage (we talk about our feelings, making them real) Third Eye: Grief or Acceptance (we become our feelings) Crown: Negative Reaction or Positive Reaction (we react to the event) try out: Courage / Compassion / Acceptance instead of: Fear / Anger / Grief It will take some practice, but you're worth it! Peace of Mind, Wormhole |
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I am having the hardest time when I am at home. I don't think that it is my family doesn't 'believe' me, I think they don't want to. I am struggling to get at least some short-term relief supplies stocked up, and I alternate between near panic and near calm. My sister (who lives with us) will help if I give her a specific task, and my husband openly scoffs at me. Sometimes I can be somewhat understanding and other times I just want to explode! On the bright side, a few of the people I have talked with at work seem receptive. Tomorrow I will be giving a copy of Handbook to a coworker who is interested in raising her self awareness. Whoo hoo for that, really my first positive contact :thumb_yello:
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I suggest reading some of the messages from people who have had NDE's (near death experiences) when you are feeling confused about your life. These people were instructed to return with a message for all of us from the beyond, and it is very enlightening.
http://www.near-death.com/ This site does a very nice job at getting their message out, and their research conclusions by topics are awesome (upper left corner of page). It is amazing that thousands of people who cross over come back with similar experiences, and some are shown things that we need to know, especially in these strange times. Love to all |
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Thank you, Firehorse, for this much needed thread...
We people who are awake are now facing a new and (for the first time) true reality. All of the old thought patterns are being changed. It was subtle at first..almost imperceptible. But, the shift has been gaining in momentum and a lot of us are struggling to incorporate the new way of life that is coming. How many feel that they have an 'assigned job' that needs to be accomplished? How many are now starting to become aware of a certain amount of psychic abilities? How many are feeling helpless? How many are fearing for their children's safety and well-being? ... are we safe? will my children and loved ones suffer? how can I be strong when the world as I know it is....leaving? I know that I'm not the only person with these concerns... It is reassuring to know that I do have many sisters and brothers to help me cope with the coming changes... Love and joy to you! |
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I certainly appreciate the frustrations of trying to communicate these issue to friends/loved ones/co workers... :mad3: goodness knows i have gone thru every human emotion since my eyes were opened...and i guess that is the key..'being human..human beings'...we are all just doing the best with what we have to go on!! I learnt early on to compartmentalise what i was learning and strategize how i could integrate this knowledge into my own life while trying to tell others!!! ( not easy !!):sweatdrop: my immediate family are totally baffled by even basic stuff regarding politics/world conflict/global issues, so i have had to seperate from them emotionally than i would have chose...but for me, there is no going back.....this journey gets more interesting by the day!!! personally have had to be very careful to use language that people will identify with...so instead of wading in and blurting out " THE ALIEN INVASION IS COMMMINGGG!!!!" ARGHHHH instead, i might say something like..."your probably aware of the global conflict getting bigger from TV? well, i have recently come across information which is very interesting and might open your eyes to something bigger going on...would you be interested??" i usually manage to get some people willing to go on the net to research.... sometimes, i get 'the look' followed by the comments.." ohh not you aswell believing all those conspiracy theories...i thought u would know better than to get involved with all that rubbish!" that is when i politely back off..and dont waste my energy trying to convince....just move onto the next person who might listen lol.... try not to panic !! i know its hard to juggle ordinary chores and the daily grind, but you are doing your bit out there....just keep trusting your instincts..it doesnt matter if other dont believe...you just do things your own sweet way regardless!!! stay close to those who share your views! :thumb_yello: namaste |
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YES, WE ARE INDEED EVOLVING VERY QUICKLY AND THE CHANGES CAN SOMETIMES TAKE MY BREATH AWAY.... LIKE, MANY I HAVE A CHILD I WISH TO PROTECT. PHYSICALLY EVEN THOUGH I BELIEVE WE CONTINUE FOR EVER... I WANT TO BE AROUND TO GUIDE HER TO THE NEXT PHASE! WE ALL NEED TO DRAW COMFORT FROM THE FACT THERE ARE MILLIONS OF US AROUND THE GLOBE FEELING SILENTLY OVERWHELMED AND UNCERTAIN OF THE RIGHT STEPS TO TAKE..... BUT HERE WE ARE...THE GROUND CREW OF AN EMERGING NEW WORLD.... WE ARE THE FORTUNATE ONES...WE HAVE THE CHANCE TO BECOME PREPARED AND MENTALLY ALIGN OURSELVES TO CHANGES BEYOND THE COMPREHENSION OF MANY.... I LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING OTHER PEOPLE SHARE AND GET THE SUPPORT OF OTHERS ALONG THE WAY... PEACE TO US ALL! :thumb_yello: :trumpet: |
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Users of this technique have documented reports of being able to stop panic attacks, asthma attacks, reverse and even cure many major diseases besides just efficiently dealing with difficult emotions or responses to pain or trauma. It is also very valuable for improving focus and achieving intentions. I've personally experienced amazing results in all areas using the simple tapping techniques. You can download a free manual from their website and sign up for a helpful newsletter. If you want to learn more, a handbook and dvd's are available for modest price. This is an invaluable skill to learn. I'm not getting paid a sales commission here, in case you're thinking I'm advertising for profit. I just happen to think it is as valuable if not more so than learning CPR or other essential survival skills. |
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Ahhh... support.
From me it always comes in the form of love. Come to think of it, love surrounds me. I do not fear for my children. They knowingly CHOSE to be here. THEY are going to save the planet more than we. They've got far less programming to contend with. My sons, 6 and 3 manifest things and KNOW it. They speak of other lives in casual convo because I've not made them feel freakish for doing so. I see the slumbering humans. They can hardly see me, now. I cast my love upon them because THEY are me, too. I turn any emotion I generate that vibrates lower than love (forcibly, sometimes) beck into love as soon as I can handle it. The more I practice it? The quicker the turn-a-round. That's my mission. My assignment. I'm a love spreader. :-) Cause, really? Not a damn thing in the universe matters more. So why waste my time doing ANYTHING else? LOVELOVELOVE and more love for anyone who needs it. |
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This is excellent advice to share with others!! I also trained in this very effective technique after suffering from PTSD ...IT WORKED! I now use it as a tool with clients... will you start a thread regarding this technique with links and any other helpful suggestions please??? have got my hands full with keeping up with other threads i have posted at the moment..LOL... peace |
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Yes, these are wise words..and i also feel the same in my spiritual outlook..especially about children choosing us and it all being played out as it is needed! I guess earlier what i was trying to say, is that sometimes its not easy to stay in that 'benign' realm all of the time..especially juggling everyday demands and kids! Fear is an ego associated feeling..and sometimes whether we like it or not we can get caught up in fear as a response to outside situations or events we are not expecting.... i alternate between total serenity of things unfolding.. a 'knowingness' that all is just fine either way...to experiencing total grief over the state of things and how much pain there is for most people in this 3rd density realm... its great there are so many out there willing to share their thoughts/feelings experiences so we can hopefully all become more balanced and in harmony with ourselves in the moment! right now..i B R E A T H E in love....and exhale the negative! namaste! |
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I've experienced 'those looks' and been frustrated at people just not getting it.As Firehorse put it....we have to be subtle and clever in how we bring these subjects up.I once tried to explain to my dad why 9/11 was an inside job by showing him 'Loose Change'.After it he said he didnt believe it because 'they wouldn't kill 3000 of their own people'.This taught me two things,that it was a little arrogant of me to try to change his beliefs (even if done with the right intent)...and also that most people's biggest stumbling block in 'getting' this information is that they think the moralty of the gov't/dark cabal/illuninati etc. is the same as ours.It isn't. So it almost becomes an artform...learning to approach people subtly and realising who you can talk to..and who you can't.Don't waste time on those who are simply not going to understand.What I have found is that more and more people are becoming receptive. I believe all of us 'chose' to be here at this time to play our part in whatever unfolds.I've never quite known my purpose but increasingly I'm knowing that its to do with what is happening now.I'm sure this is true of many others and why I'm so happy that this site has manifested at exactly the right time :) Love & Light to all... |
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i know i have an assigned job... and over time and life experience i have learned something about it... it will totally turn on at the correct time... there is something many of us "latents" are waiting for... and i believe it is for exactly when shtf... i do not perform well unless under severe pressure to do so... i don't believe this to be a shortcoming anymore... i am designed this way on purpose it seems to me now... at some points in my life i have been under pressure, and make things happen and stay cool when others are phreaking out losing it amidst the chaos... i do not do well when it seems to be all hunky dorey... ya know? i have children... my son has told me that he knows i know and he will stay close to me because i will be the one who will know what to do to be safe (this is when faced with option to live with his father)... i had visions many years ago of having to walk, toting the children behind me... and walk a long long way... in one particular vision all i was carrying was a roll of blankets and a large bag of seeds which was well hidden... strange vision at the time... not so now thank you for your post and thank everyone for the contributions to this board SunRa |
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Employ Critical thinking. This is my strategy. It's almost as if I simply stop in my awareness of so-called "negative."
I watch the thoughts and their potential to effect the thinker. I remind myself that I have a choice in which thoughts I allow to fester long enough to actually become a feeling. Detachment is paramount. From this soul, I know. In my knowing, I am free and fearless, and in a constant state of unconditional love. From my ego, I am lowered frequency, attached to results, overcome with a conditioned sense of powerlessness, the illusion seems real. Awareness of these two frequencies, and the intentional implementation of each, enables harnessed power, honored truth. Reminding myself that I have a choice, and that my feelings are my own responsibility, leads me to consciously creating what I prefer in my now, which then turns up the love in my future. It takes tenacity & consistency, to recondition our minds with higher truths.. Everything is nothing until I label it something. Even the difficult stuff is necessary contrast. I label it all love, detach from the results and attract what is preferred, because that is what I am capable of, I'm that powerful. We all are. Remember!! Love & light throughout~ |
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Wonderful posts everyone!
Its helps to know that others are struggling with the same thoughts and emotions. I feel blessed to live in a tight-knit community and although most people where I live that I come in contact with on a daily basis seem unaware of what's really going down, I feel that folks will come together if the need arises. I have many close neighbors and freinds and I feel that although they might think Im a little "off" in my perceptions of the world, that hopefully I have planted some seeds for thought. That's really all I can do as freewill must be considered. I too have children and grandchildren as some of you. I love them dearly, but I know that they have chosen to be here at this time and all I can really do is stand by them and allow them their growth as intended. It is a struggle sometimes, I want to run thru the streets yelling, "wake up and see what's really going on folks!" :shocked: It's great to know that I can come here and feel the love and support. |
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Even though I am well informed, spiritually integrated over time and in an environment that is supportive, i still have problems sometimes holding up my own energies. I surf the nett every day and even though I am looking for signs, signals and information that is positive, It cannot be avoided that the negativity seeps in and corrupts my spiritual energy. I have found one solution that seems to work. I have made a meditation CD that has 26 minutes overlaid with breathing and the last 20 minutes of pure overtones in a choir. On top of this I have made several variations of CDs with tones in each channel that create stimulation of the brain at theta and delta waves. If I do my meditations twice a day and ask for guidance from Higher self, my energy helps me through the day.
I don't know where I would be without a good connection to higher self. |
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When the tool is available ...
Sometimes we find the inner wisdom, yet other times it may remain elusive, and this may actually be our own higher, base or core self drafting the experience potentials ... when I face these times, I turn to tools, which are but our own creative talismans, Yes? Some of my favorites, often available cheap or free, or through societally frowned upon means for free, are Holosync, Hemi-Sync and Drum Music. Especially when used with headphones, the binaural beats may serve to connect (reconnect) our brain hemispheres and result in balance, perhaps even amplification, of what we are. With the onslaught of electromagnetic and potentially scaler energies we are exposed to, it may be analogous to a brain tune-up. NAMASTE |
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Thank you for this thread, wonderful idea!
It is very difficult feeling isolated by our understandings and beliefs. I have been on an emotional rollercoaster which has gotten in the way of my preperations that I know I should be making. I have flood dreams often, my entire life. I have had warnings. One thing that has helped me a great deal is the research of Dr. Emoto on water crystals. I have watched this short video many times. Interview with Dr. Masaru Emoto about the magic of Water http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujQAk9EM3xg Now when I get really upset, I go for a glass of water and think positive thoughts, it helps me to change my thought pattern to one of gratitude and is becoming my little ritual. I hope others may find this info useful! Peace and Love & Light! ~ Jenn |
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Zynox... have you heard of the new Hang Drum, or ufo drum lol?
I love this.. the vibration is so soothing. Hang Drum TheArtOfFusion - Inner Voice http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wqHb_xXX7Ps :original: |
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Jenn, that was a great link, thank you as it makes a great addition to the experience here, it fits well, especially as the pace and rhythm oscillate.
As a return gesture, see my find of the Earth Harp today > http://www.projectavalon.net/forum/s...ead.php?t=1264 NAMASTE |
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Santana - All The Love of The Universe
I recommend reading Journeys Out of The Body, Far Journeys, and Ultimate Journey by Robert Monroe. The essential point being "I am more than the physical body". Think a lot of fear is connected to this, and may bring about a deeper understanding which brings release. If you're feeling down, my tip is to take some time off to do something that makes you happy, to bring back your spark. :biggrin2: |
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I know it sounds so easy...and in some respect it IS easy. Dare to NOT think. You know what is true, right, important. You know that. I know you know.
Let go. And yet. In the everyday life - do what is needed. Read Castaneda - learn to live the controlled madness...that is - act as you are the same in the world not changed. Until the moment when you know...you KNOW...you have to act...don't worry; you will know when to act. Then: ACT! Concrete tips regarding your meditation. Stop doing it for a while. And do physical exercise instead - walk, walk, walk. You are so right on track! :lightsabre: Quote:
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I am a EFT practitioner and i can recomend this to anyone who suffers from emotional fears/problems. EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique originaly comes from Tibet. It works by tapping certain area's on the face, body and hand. How it works is these points that are tapped store the bad energy from a bad experience or whatever the suppressed emotion may be. Jolting electricity from one side of the brain to the other.
I have helped people from various fear and problems from fear of flying, abuse, fear of spiders and even a fear of vertigo. This is extreamly effective. |
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Wow... that Earth Harp is amazing! Very Cool! Great music. Thank You Zynox. :original: |
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Seems simple enough! I need to drink more water, certainly, and I very much enjoyed the video. A good reminder to send positive thoughts constantly to my children, who are mostly water as I recall. A big thanks to everyone who has posted their comments here. It is comforting to know that I'm not alone, going through rollercoasters of emotions, sometimes feeling positive about the future, other times nearly catatonic with grief and concern. |
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I feel like I am the eye of the hurricane and everyone around me is going nuts. The more I understand spiritual truth the more insane sleeping people seem. I want to shake them and shout WAKE UP!
In the spiritual realm we are all hanging out and having a party! |
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~advise PLEASE!!!
As a 'lone' parent I sometimes struggle with getting the balance right on how much info/knowledge I introduce to my child about the potential 'changes' to life as we know it.... Obviously, i dont wish to scare her...and am VERY cautious when bringing up/responding to issues related to our forum here.... #Although she is a bright sensitive child who has a total belief in multiple dimensions, aliens, reincarnation, 'spiritworld' (our name for the afterlife plane) she is at present still quite emersed in her innocence to the projection of the 'matrix' reality most of us are living in.... so I contantly swing with the notion of how much do I tell her?? do I just ''let her be, and enjoy whats left of 'normality'' as she knows it?? ....and/or.... prepare her mentally and spiritually as much as I can?? #Most of her friends are from families who are 'sleeping' and 'blind to our reality' ...if I let her know too much, she is likely to discuss with friends and then risk being rejected / excluded as a 'weird kid' by those families ... She is aware that 'mum is busy with research regarding changes in our planet' and I have prepared her for the possiblilty of having to get rid of most our possessions at some point and for us to be going on a 'travelling adventure'together, and she seemed to be cool with that idea! We also talked about the possibility of 'time travel' becoming a reality for us all in her lifetime....and she jumped into my arms with joy and tears in her eyes !! ( is this a sign she is ready?) So, i guess its a case of mental/spiritual preperation -Vs- ignorance and innocence.... ??? As a parent to a child I adore and love, I obviously want to do the 'right thing' I am aware that the 'timelines' are ever changeable and what could potentially happen might not materialise....so how much preperation does a parent give their child at this time of confusion and unpredictability??? I would appreciate other parents views and some insight to how they are choosing to deal with this... beacuse I am REALLY CONFUSED! many thanks! live laugh love learn firehorse |
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This is a really worthwhile thread! And I suspect that there will be many who will read it and take comfort and support from it, 'though perhaps not post.
I'm sure each and every one of us can identify with the emotions described here. Firehorse, you wrote: 'She is aware that 'mum is busy with research regarding changes in our planet' and I have prepared her for the possiblilty of having to get rid of most our possessions at some point and for us to be going on a 'travelling adventure'together, and she seemed to be cool with that idea! We also talked about the possibility of 'time travel' becoming a reality for us all in her lifetime....and she jumped into my arms with joy and tears in her eyes !! ( is this a sign she is ready?) So, i guess its a case of mental/spiritual preperation -Vs- ignorance and innocence.... ??? As a parent to a child I adore and love, I obviously want to do the 'right thing' I am aware that the 'timelines' are ever changeable and what could potentially happen might not materialise....so how much preperation does a parent give their child at this time of confusion and unpredictability???' I feel complete admiration for how you are handling this. The bond between the two of you is obviously very strong and probably ancient. You don't mention how old she is, but it sounds to me like she will be more prepared than most when the time comes. Perhaps it is easier the younger we are....there is more of an openness. Sending loving energy to all reading this and all who haven't.... Angel of the Mists |
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I have two daughters of 15 and 10 years old. The elder is becoming more and more engaged in writing, analyzing and experiencing the world (and as a father I might NOT always agree in how she approaches boys...but I guess I am to grow into that as well...gnnnn). The younger is a sensible, sensitive, intuitive girl sometimes living in her own world.
I believe that one thing is extremely important: To help the child to awaken to the world. To think for themselves. To recieve the world in their own way. In this also lies the right to revolt to the parents. But also of course to get inspired by them. For me this means that I try to act as a good example as a father and a human being (although this sometimes is tested to the extreme...). I do not wish to introduce them into some of the issues of urgency that happens in the world today. But when they ask me of their own curiosity - I answer them...I also pursue the questions with counter questions, so that they themselves start to wonder and search. May that question be regarding why the sky is blue, global warming or the meaning of a strange dream and what it means to be the guardian of the family as I am and share with one elder relative. The elder daughter is, however quite intellectual, very spiritual and sensitive for the echoes of the unknown. And I tries to support her - not as a teacher, but in my way of being open and non-judging. She has had some ghost experiences, but is not afraid. I have shared them with her, myself trying to connect with the ghosts to be certain that no harm is at hand. But I think it so very important not to convince, nor convert your children into you own ways of experiensing the world; they really must do that travel themselves. I may show them that I am there, not as a teacher/priest - but a friend and support and inspiration. I have a friend who is very much into Angels and aspect of that. She has also integrated her three children very much into that way of look onto the world, and I must say that I disagree with that - they should not be sucked into your believes and excercises at early ages. It might even do more harm than help them. You should not as a parent act as a spiritual teacher to your own kids, unless you really consider yourself being a true spiritual master. Show them that there are many trues. That the universe is open to many ways of percieving it. That you as a being is here to experience and reflect and most important of all - to do your own thinking. The seeds sown into the children of your's will grow, but never in the ways you expect. If you are lucky, they will share some of their spirictual search with you later on. But you should also expect that they will superceed you! I often come back to Khalil Gibrain's "the Prophet", which has helped me so much in the life: On Children Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let our bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable. Quote:
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'Show them that there are many trues. That the universe is open to many ways of percieving it. That you as a being is here to experience and reflect and most important of all - to do your own thinking.
The seeds sown into the children of your's will grow, but never in the ways you expect. If you are lucky, they will share some of their spirictual search with you later on. But you should also expect that they will superceed you!' This I know to be true! I believe the role of parent is to provide a safe place for children to learn and for these 'beings' in small bodies to grow into and remember who they really are. My two girls are now in their twenties; both beautiful and both very different in how they view life. One is much more open to what we are talking about on this forum, the other is not. And I'm not sure I know how to deal with that, except to take advantage of opportunities when they present themselves, and to use language that doesn't sound too off the wall. And allow both of them to do their own thinking. Angel |
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ThanKyou Angel and I AM.....great to hear those viewpoints..and of course alot of insight there!! I have posted this as an independent thread as I feel it is an important question for so many......
I have always loved that Khalil gibrains THE PROPHET...totally beautiful and very true words! Luckily, I have developed into the type of person who does very much believe that we dont 'own' our children..we are temporary guardians who are blessed by the lessons children bring forth to us!! My girl is age 11 now, and as it has always just been just the two of us since birth, we have an incredibly close bond... Sometimes, as a human being with flaws I get it wrong and can fail in being the best example..but she never judges, as she knows that I am 'there for her 100%' when she needs me!! I guess the main thing is to keep communication open and continue letting her just interprete her world in her own sweet way! I do feel better for having shared and 'aired' this openly, because it had started to become a 'stuck' worry that I just couldnt share easily with family of friends. Thankyou again people for such lovely thoughtful relflective response! it makes the world of difference to feel the support and identification of others! blessings to all of you on this forum! firehorse |
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Thank YOU Firehorse for sharing and being so open.
Daring to question your parentship and relationship with your children is a very brave thing to do. Daring to be wrong sometimes even braver. THX |
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