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Only a woman could get away with saying this.

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Yep! All said in innocence!!:naughty:

Anyway Kula, step away from the PC or else you be pulling an all nighter.:lmfao:xx

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I'll post them on your page later - I have a collection didn't you know.:naughty:

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nice avator gita ;)

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Thank you eXchanger. Glad to see someone here using their own pic – you are brave but you do have a beautiful face so you can get away with. I remain a coward.:sweatdrop:

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whatever is outside, is only half as good, as what is inside ;)

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ah! but i have met Gita GIRL and she is realy beautifull inside and out
REALY :wub2:

and kulla is real sweet ladys
and a true gentleman
and very funny xxx

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Speak for yourself angel - plus the fact you are biased and I love you for it.xxx:wub2::wub2::wub2:

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Great.. thanks for that R... I'll pay you tomorrow Rhythm. The usual fee?

Look forward to seeing Gita's happy/sad balls in the flesh too

The mind boggles.

You're all sweet, what can I say? Even the guys...:original:

K

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And what happens if it doesn't work and it screws up my job?

It's bad enough that I just can't push myself to take the risk. It's times like this that I wish I knew how to use telepathy.

Also, tell me something: If a woman is super friendly to you, smiles at you and generally acts like this EVERY TIME you see her, what is that? Is that interest or is she just a really nice person? Am I reading too much into this? I can't tell anymore.

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This is a bit of a worry for me as I am talking from experience re: work colleague relationships/affairs type thing. If it goes wrong, one of you invaribly has to leave the place of employment, only saying this because it happened to me, had to go, that was it. It is amazing how fast something like this gets around the office, it's like wild fire believe me. Other people just love this type of thing to gossip about.

On the other side I also know how you feel when you really like someone at work and your desperate to know how they would react. Okay I am thinking here, wait a sec............as far as her being nice to you whenever she sees you and smiling.....well gee, I used to do that to people I wasnt really keen on and I used to get really shy with someone I did have the hots for, but I suppose it depends on their personality.

So, if you are picking up a vibe and want to ask her out, see if there is an occasion at work coming up where you all go out to the pub, for lunch etc and maybe after a drink or two strike up a conversation. I suppose you have already found out covertly if she has a boyfriend/girlfriend? :nono: If she hasn't well then its up to you how you want to handle it my friend. I know how bloody difficult it can be with this, but I also know how it can explode in your face, because believe I am telling you now I have worked with people who hate their lives are miserable and just plod along and would give everything to be able to be young and free and single and because of their jealousy and resentment could make life hell for you, been there, done that, sold the t-shirt, :naughty:

I remember I typed up a letter so no one could recognise my hand writing and sent an anonymous love note through the inter office mail.:lmao:

See if you can come up with something that is proactive but also protects you as well. Let us know how you go.

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I think that it's a good idea. Many people are spiritual or policial and Avalon embraces both.

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HJ, you could say...'hi *name* wanna grab a coffee(beer) after work...or whenever?

If answer is 'no thanks', let it be and try again another time. If you get a 2nd 'no thanks' then maybe reconsider her pleasantries towards you as just friends.

If she accepts, and out of the work enviroment, you can enjoy coffee/beer and just chat with her about nothing in particular, just see how it flows, you will gain some knowledge from this...for your next move...or not.

Peace.

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Thanks for your reply, Ellie. It's something I keep hearing and I figured that the folks I know would be more supportive and encouraging but I'm just not seeing it. Maybe I should just back off.

And no, I don't know if she has someone. I'm not a creep that snoops around.

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Does this count? LOL
http://projectavalon.net/forum/pictu...pictureid=7818

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You making a pass at me????? :shocked:

:naughty:

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ok I found the most recent pic of me (last year)... and changed my avatar to it...

might also help if we ever have a meeting of the persons instead of just a meeting of the minds...:tongue2:

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Thank you for your reply, futureyes.

I believe I will just play it safe for now. I'm more frustrated that none of my friends want to help me with finding someone but I believe they are probably afraid that I will blame them if they try to be matchmakers and it doesn't work. I'm not worried about rejection. I'm just thinking that I'm not getting any younger and I want to move on and grow and experience more out of my life.

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iF you want to attract the right person,
then, be a reflection to the world,
of what it is, that you actually really want
and, then, you might just attract that ;)

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ahh, she remembers you for other times
~ some very serious 'essence' rememberance is going on
~ so, just enjoy it
basque in the light of it, and, smile back
~there is NO doubt, she is a bright light
appreciate her, and, her way
~send her things in the interoffice mail
(without her knowing who is sending them)
maybe a unique coffee cup ~ with a profound saying
or, a little chocolate at easter
(do NOT rush it)
instead, have fun with it
(and, do NOT rush anything)
just like a river, and, all of the things within the river,
they always decide together,
where they are going to plot their neXt course,
the same, could be said,
about you, and, about her,
so, just allow all the eXchanges between you & her occur
& in the process, you are likely to discover a lot about her
most of all, enjoy it, and, have fun, with it
and, who knows, it just could develop
into something amasing overtime ?

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Hi Anton joining in ,my teenage sons just put me onto a rapper named Immortal Teschnique he does a down to earth and gut renching love song worth a listening to its Immortal Technique - You Never Know Lyrics ,watch it on you tube.I,ve recently had a falling in love incident at work.I make coffees for people and brighten up their day with my precence behind the counter.A customer i.ve known for 4 years suddenly became excrusiatinly disirable with her beautiful smile beaming all over the shop.I asked her out to have a coffee and she said ''no,im in a new relationship''. Thats why she was so happy.I asked to go onto her waiting list,she laughed and i havent sighted her since.So I guess the moral of this story is get your facts before making any moves.Love to the People.

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Haha you are all so funny. I love you all:lol3:

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Long text be damned, I appreciate your response and I think that's what I will do. I enjoy playing off of the energy she projects and it's good energy regardless.

I'm just too anxious to shed this skin of not being able to connect with people in the ways I want to connect. I feel like an outsider when it comes to this stuff.